"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Once a fvcktard, always a fvcktard?

evolvingnerd

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in my shyer and more introverted days at uni, i put across the message that i'm more of a quiet guy - damn i regret it now

there's a group of the "cool" people, and i had an avenue in, but they were a little too out there for me, so i completley ignored them
even to this da y i despise them, not sure why. it's not completley because they have what i want in terms of social status and such, but they're very arrogant and b!tchy and the sort of people i turn my nose up at

anyway, there are some chicks (hot ones) who are associated with this gropu, and as a result i initially ignored them. i perhaps got a few smiles here and there, saw them around, talked for a sec, but generally made it know that they could fvck off for all i cared. however, rather than using this to my advantage, i just never approached them and never talked to them. i almost avoided them :rolleyes:

now, on my quest for more friends and girls, i wanna meet up with these girls. i see em everyday in classes, some of em are even in my degree. but is it too late now? have i been labelled a fvcktard/

one side incident that may be worth noting, one of the cool dudes came and sat next to me cause there weren't any seats left. i said hi. that was literally it. not another word. i just continued talking to my other friend and doing my work. he sat there like a fvcking nigel, noone to talk to (suck **** to the f@g anyways) but i saw him and his usualy girl that he sits next to, giving each other weird looks. now i could be being paranoid, but i think it may have been why the **** isn't he (me) tlaking to u and completley ignoring u

help me out fellas
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maverick001

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evolvingnerd,

Don't concern yourself with what others think. If you want to associate with those "cool" people, do so. If you don't, then don't.

You're a DJ or a DJ in training right? Well, either one of those guys does whatever he wants. You don't need or require the acceptance or validation of those "others", they need yours. Get it?

If as you say, you despise these people to this day and aren't sure why then just follow your gut instinct.

You're at university and there are plenty of single women around that you could socialize with right? Hit them up bud.

Go get 'em!

Cheers,
Mav
 

NewMan

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What are you getting at?

You wanna be someone your not?

"Cool guys"???

Sorry man - but you've got to learn to live life the way you want to.

Stop being so paranoid.

Have a little confidence in your self.

You may not want to be so judgemental either. Make freinds with people from all sorts of areas in life - that way you'll be more rounded a more robust individual.
 

evolvingnerd

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the only problem is there are not many people of my race to be found, outside of this group
and so far, the ones i've seen are all UG10s if u get me

but, i'm a going to try to make life about me
 

diplomatic_lie

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At college/university there is no "cool people". Unless you're at Hick University, there'll usually be a huge amount of groups, nobody knows each other, so its hard to be cool when only 5% of the uni knows you.

the only problem is there are not many people of my race to be found, outside of this group
What IS your race? Martian? Unless you can't speak English race isn't something to be considered in Australia.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BigWillyStyle

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Evolvingnerd, you sound like 14 year old kid that's still trying to find how to fit in. F*ck what other people think about you, why do you care? Were you the same guy that posted about what people think of you because you walk around with a MP3 player and about how your trying to ditch your "old loser friends" because you're becoming some big suave motherfvcker?

Listen, stop caring what others think, you can't please everyone. DO YOUR OWN THING. If you really wanna look like the sh!t hire two class-A hookers for a day and and walk around with these hoes for a day and make them feel you up infront of everyone on campus grounds, that raise enough eyebrows for a tryhard like you.
 

evolvingnerd

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Evolvingnerd, you sound like 14 year old kid that's still trying to find how to fit in. F*ck what other people think about you, why do you care? Were you the same guy that posted about what people think of you because you walk around with a MP3 player and about how your trying to ditch your "old loser friends" because you're becoming some big suave motherfvcker?

Listen, stop caring what others think, you can't please everyone. DO YOUR OWN THING. If you really wanna look like the sh!t hire two class-A hookers for a day and and walk around with these hoes for a day and make them feel you up infront of everyone on campus grounds, that raise enough eyebrows for a tryhard like you.
thanks for that
i think i needed a good slap in the face ;)
 
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