"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Once a fvcktard, always a fvcktard?

evolvingnerd

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in my shyer and more introverted days at uni, i put across the message that i'm more of a quiet guy - damn i regret it now

there's a group of the "cool" people, and i had an avenue in, but they were a little too out there for me, so i completley ignored them
even to this da y i despise them, not sure why. it's not completley because they have what i want in terms of social status and such, but they're very arrogant and b!tchy and the sort of people i turn my nose up at

anyway, there are some chicks (hot ones) who are associated with this gropu, and as a result i initially ignored them. i perhaps got a few smiles here and there, saw them around, talked for a sec, but generally made it know that they could fvck off for all i cared. however, rather than using this to my advantage, i just never approached them and never talked to them. i almost avoided them :rolleyes:

now, on my quest for more friends and girls, i wanna meet up with these girls. i see em everyday in classes, some of em are even in my degree. but is it too late now? have i been labelled a fvcktard/

one side incident that may be worth noting, one of the cool dudes came and sat next to me cause there weren't any seats left. i said hi. that was literally it. not another word. i just continued talking to my other friend and doing my work. he sat there like a fvcking nigel, noone to talk to (suck **** to the f@g anyways) but i saw him and his usualy girl that he sits next to, giving each other weird looks. now i could be being paranoid, but i think it may have been why the **** isn't he (me) tlaking to u and completley ignoring u

help me out fellas
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maverick001

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evolvingnerd,

Don't concern yourself with what others think. If you want to associate with those "cool" people, do so. If you don't, then don't.

You're a DJ or a DJ in training right? Well, either one of those guys does whatever he wants. You don't need or require the acceptance or validation of those "others", they need yours. Get it?

If as you say, you despise these people to this day and aren't sure why then just follow your gut instinct.

You're at university and there are plenty of single women around that you could socialize with right? Hit them up bud.

Go get 'em!

Cheers,
Mav
 

NewMan

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What are you getting at?

You wanna be someone your not?

"Cool guys"???

Sorry man - but you've got to learn to live life the way you want to.

Stop being so paranoid.

Have a little confidence in your self.

You may not want to be so judgemental either. Make freinds with people from all sorts of areas in life - that way you'll be more rounded a more robust individual.
 

evolvingnerd

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the only problem is there are not many people of my race to be found, outside of this group
and so far, the ones i've seen are all UG10s if u get me

but, i'm a going to try to make life about me
 

diplomatic_lie

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At college/university there is no "cool people". Unless you're at Hick University, there'll usually be a huge amount of groups, nobody knows each other, so its hard to be cool when only 5% of the uni knows you.

the only problem is there are not many people of my race to be found, outside of this group
What IS your race? Martian? Unless you can't speak English race isn't something to be considered in Australia.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BigWillyStyle

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Evolvingnerd, you sound like 14 year old kid that's still trying to find how to fit in. F*ck what other people think about you, why do you care? Were you the same guy that posted about what people think of you because you walk around with a MP3 player and about how your trying to ditch your "old loser friends" because you're becoming some big suave motherfvcker?

Listen, stop caring what others think, you can't please everyone. DO YOUR OWN THING. If you really wanna look like the sh!t hire two class-A hookers for a day and and walk around with these hoes for a day and make them feel you up infront of everyone on campus grounds, that raise enough eyebrows for a tryhard like you.
 

evolvingnerd

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Evolvingnerd, you sound like 14 year old kid that's still trying to find how to fit in. F*ck what other people think about you, why do you care? Were you the same guy that posted about what people think of you because you walk around with a MP3 player and about how your trying to ditch your "old loser friends" because you're becoming some big suave motherfvcker?

Listen, stop caring what others think, you can't please everyone. DO YOUR OWN THING. If you really wanna look like the sh!t hire two class-A hookers for a day and and walk around with these hoes for a day and make them feel you up infront of everyone on campus grounds, that raise enough eyebrows for a tryhard like you.
thanks for that
i think i needed a good slap in the face ;)
 
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