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What do you guys think, or do people learn from their mistakes and stop.
Both guys and girls.
Both guys and girls.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Once a cheater always a cheater?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Its all part of maturity i think. Some people grow up fast and learn their lessons fast. Other stuble through life until they learn. And there are still others than never learn. The go day to day.. just doing what they do best. Wether its good or bad. I would say the majority that cheat, cheat again. But there are those who learn the error of their ways, and never do it again.
my two cents
my two cents
MightyMate
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Depends. But if You are with girl who never chated its bigger change shes gonna cheat. Everybody has to cheat once or twice.
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I disagree. I've known girls that have cheated on every guy they've ever been with. I think they are more likely to cheat.Depends. But if You are with girl who never chated its bigger change shes gonna cheat. Everybody has to cheat once or twice.
Some people take cheating less seriously than others. Those people are more likely to cheat. Such as yourself.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Distant Light
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Cheating a mistake?
Hell na if I want to cheat and have other fuvkbuddies/MLTRs ima do it. It just brings mre more pusvy. Also look where your at a seduction community there are plenty of guys who are taking people's wives and Gfs just to maybe fuvk once and leave. I haven't tryed to take a girl who had a bf yet, but I've heard that its actually easier to lay a girl who is already taken than a girl who is single.
Hell na if I want to cheat and have other fuvkbuddies/MLTRs ima do it. It just brings mre more pusvy. Also look where your at a seduction community there are plenty of guys who are taking people's wives and Gfs just to maybe fuvk once and leave. I haven't tryed to take a girl who had a bf yet, but I've heard that its actually easier to lay a girl who is already taken than a girl who is single.
ADifferentKindofDJ
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If you believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater," then you'll have to cross a lot of girls off your list. But I believe it's all depends on character and maturity. Sooner or later they grow up some just take longer to get there.
I have to disagree. I have never cheated on a girl. And I dont have a desire to do so ever.Originally posted by MightyMate
Everybody has to cheat once or twice.
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it's a good thing not everybody thinks like you...Originally posted by MightyMate
Everybody has to cheat once or twice.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Its all about habits. Most people cant drop habits that easily, i'v been trying to stop biting my nails for years now.
But there will be some habitual cheaters who can break it.
But there will be some habitual cheaters who can break it.
duttylove
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cheating is not something that is usually done for the sake of it. A girl will not cheat on you if you have done your job rite. you should be up in her head, all she thinks about. the thought of another guy touching her should make her want to vomit. improve your game and girls will not cheat on you. if i cheat its because my girl is not in my head where she should be, if she were that would be one-itis or what ever u guys call it. the thing weve been trained to avoid. but with woman its not the case. ur girl should have one-itis for you, if she doesnt then work on your game alot more. you shouldnt be worrying yourself about weather a girl cheats or not you should be concentrating on your self and what you can get from the girl sex and otherwise.
and for the guy that said every one has to cheat once or twice i think you mean people want to experience things they havnt dont before. if you want f**k some ones girl, providing she has never cheated before, you can use this to your advantage"
but to answer your question. any one can cheat at any time. you cannot stop it from happening. life is not linear and you cannot predict nor controll some ones actions. worrying about it is simply foolish. a girl can be dating a symp/afc and cheat on him alot. she can then meet a dj/pimp and never cheat again. its about choice. cheat or dont cheat. if your game is tight u will have eliminated the later option.
and for the guy that said every one has to cheat once or twice i think you mean people want to experience things they havnt dont before. if you want f**k some ones girl, providing she has never cheated before, you can use this to your advantage"
but to answer your question. any one can cheat at any time. you cannot stop it from happening. life is not linear and you cannot predict nor controll some ones actions. worrying about it is simply foolish. a girl can be dating a symp/afc and cheat on him alot. she can then meet a dj/pimp and never cheat again. its about choice. cheat or dont cheat. if your game is tight u will have eliminated the later option.
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In 'Tips' sction i made some post with tips for cheaters. Have fun!