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On women ‘liking’ drama

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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So we’ve all heard before how women just love drama, despite their constant claims to the contrary. As foolish as it may seem to try making sense of the nonsensical maelstrom of erratic and whimsical neuroticism that is the female mind, I decided that I’d try to explain this one aspect of female nature anyway.

Guys, it’s not that women like drama for the sake of drama, it’s just that they like the rush it gives them. They don’t actually like the drama itself, they just like the feel of it. That’s why they all say they don’t like drama even though their actions appear to indicate otherwise. They don’t like the stress and potential (social) consequences that come along with it, but the rush they get gives them that little dopamine hit they all crave, reinforcing the idiotic behavior lol. That’s why they all like the guy with that dangerous edge—because he’s thrilling, he’s exciting. He gives them that rush. It satisfies their need for constant stimulation in this instant-gratification culture of ours that Western society has created.

What that means for us is that we just gotta continuously stimulate their monkey brain. In other words, be spontaneous. Be fun, thrilling, exciting, be adventurous, do the risky things that you know you probably shouldn’t do; all these things feed into that need for instant-gratification they all have. Not only that, but your daringness and boldness to take ‘dangerous’ risks like this shows strength (hot & attractive in guys), and you being spontaneous makes you harder to figure out (separates you from other guys; because she can’t figure you out, “you’re different”, and as such, she’ll think about you more than she would others, making her more attracted to you simply because of that). And as an added bonus, she’ll give you less shit tests because of all this (because she’ll still be reeling in from the excitement that you give her/that she associates you with).

There’s a lot more that I can say, but those things vary a bit from culture to culture/person to person, and I don’t want this to be too long. This actually ended up becoming a revival of old knowledge/wisdom from the DJ Bible and the weekly newsletter, which I honestly didn’t intend for it to be, but wow it just goes to show just how far ahead this place is compared to others.

Feel free to discuss.
 

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Is it so much different from some social guys? Many guys want drama. Fake wrestling drama, UFC drama, sports drama. Men make drama all the time as well if they start talking and specially drinking. Men get in competition and fight. That is a lot of drama. The areas of drama are just different.




Men take you in their arms
Men give comfort
Men cry secretly
Men need a lot of tenderness and
Men are so vulnerable
Men are just irreplacable in this world

Men buy women
Men are always on the run
Men flirt like crazy
Men lie on the telephone
Men are ready all the time
Men captivate with their money and nonchalance

Men have a hard life, but take it easy
Hard on the outside, soft at the inside
As children, they're already groomed to turn into men
When is a man a man?

When is a man a man?

Men have muscles
Men are so strong
Men can do everything
Men get a heart attack and
Men are lonely fighters
Have to get through every wall, always have to keep going

Men have a hard life, but take it easy
Hard on the outside, soft at the inside
When being a child they already are turned into men
When is a man a man?

Men wage wars
Men are already drunk when they are yet babies
Men smoke pipe
Men are extremly clever
Men build rockets
Men do everything as precisely as they can

When is a man a man?

Men get no children
Men get thin hair
Men are human beings too
Men are a bit strange and
Man are so vulnerable
Men are just irreplacable in this world
https://lyricstranslate.com/en/maenner-men.html-0

 

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In my personal experience, women like the emotional rollercoater of drama and they also like the drama itself....

Women are narcissistic, they like to think of themselves as being the main character in some sort of galactic romantic comedy and that the universe is watching them....

They love manufacturing drama because it makes them feel like they live an interesting life....

The more emotions a guy can subject a woman to, the more she becomes addicted to him.... I believe that's actually why some women love being in abusive relationships - because they love the emotional rollercoaster.... The idea of settling down with a good man that has a stable job and can be good father literally disgusts them.....

The best example of this is Sharon Stone's character Ginger in the movie Casino......
 

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After survival life is all about drama that is how we get fun in life. That is one reason why men go for women. Many guys outsource there drama needs to women and children.

I read an article about emotional suppression. Atheists tend to do that more apparently. So one way to see Religion is to create more drama (spice of life) in our lifes.


 

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Is it so much different from some social guys? Many guys want drama. Fake wrestling drama, UFC drama, sports drama. Men make drama all the time as well if they start talking and specially drinking. Men get in competition and fight. That is a lot of drama. The areas of drama are just different.




Men take you in their arms
Men give comfort
Men cry secretly
Men need a lot of tenderness and
Men are so vulnerable
Men are just irreplacable in this world

Men buy women
Men are always on the run
Men flirt like crazy
Men lie on the telephone
Men are ready all the time
Men captivate with their money and nonchalance

Men have a hard life, but take it easy
Hard on the outside, soft at the inside
As children, they're already groomed to turn into men
When is a man a man?

When is a man a man?

Men have muscles
Men are so strong
Men can do everything
Men get a heart attack and
Men are lonely fighters
Have to get through every wall, always have to keep going

Men have a hard life, but take it easy
Hard on the outside, soft at the inside
When being a child they already are turned into men
When is a man a man?

Men wage wars
Men are already drunk when they are yet babies
Men smoke pipe
Men are extremly clever
Men build rockets
Men do everything as precisely as they can

When is a man a man?

Men get no children
Men get thin hair
Men are human beings too
Men are a bit strange and
Man are so vulnerable
Men are just irreplacable in this world
https://lyricstranslate.com/en/maenner-men.html-0

After survival life is all about drama that is how we get fun in life. That is one reason why men go for women. Many guys outsource there drama needs to women and children.

I read an article about emotional suppression. Atheists tend to do that more apparently. So one way to see Religion is to create more drama (spice of life) in our lifes.


I do t see what this has to do with drama. The UFC/wrestling/etc. stuff was kinda close ig, but that’s only to get more viewership for monetary gain, not because they actually like starting beef with each other. That stuff doesn’t happen irl.
 

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I do t see what this has to do with drama. The UFC/wrestling/etc. stuff was kinda close ig, but that’s only to get more viewership for monetary gain, not because they actually like starting beef with each other. That stuff doesn’t happen irl.

I ment the viewers want to watch the drama in fake wrestling. So men love drama.
 

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The interesting thing in forums is the drama. That is the most human thing to do. People like different kinds of drama but everybody loves drama in one form or other.
 

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In my personal experience, women like the emotional rollercoater of drama and they also like the drama itself....

Women are narcissistic, they like to think of themselves as being the main character in some sort of galactic romantic comedy and that the universe is watching them....

They love manufacturing drama because it makes them feel like they live an interesting life....

The more emotions a guy can subject a woman to, the more she becomes addicted to him.... I believe that's actually why some women love being in abusive relationships - because they love the emotional rollercoaster.... The idea of settling down with a good man that has a stable job and can be good father literally disgusts them.....

The best example of this is Sharon Stone's character Ginger in the movie Casino......
This was actually one of the things I didn’t mention because it would make the post too long.

For some women, it makes them feel like they’re in a movie where they’re the main character, (gives them that attention, validation, spotlight is on them, like they’re that girl, that popular chick, etc.); I find that to be true more for white chicks if I’m being honest. For others, it makes them feel like they’re the queen bitch; this one is more true for black chicks from what I’ve seen. Stuff like this is why I said above it varies from culture to culture and person to person.

With some women, it’s a byproduct of other aspects of female nature. Say for instance you’re at work and you and a girl are assigned a task to do, and the girl keeps asking questions about it that to you seem completely pointless and repetitive and don’t really matter. Women do that because they want to try to figure out how the task is rather than what the task is. What’s important is the task itself, not so much how it’s done, which is we as men think to ourselves “just use common sense, ffs”.

The other thing I wanted to say was that to many women, the problems that come along with that drama act as a ‘challenge’, and that helps fuel the rush and the ego boost that comes along with coming out on top of the drama.
 

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The interesting thing in forums is the drama. That is the most human thing to do. People like different kinds of drama but everybody loves drama in one form or other.
I ment the viewers want to watch the drama in fake wrestling. So men love drama.
You speak for yourself on this one.

Also, please stop spamming the forums. There’s no need to make one post right after the other a few minutes apart, especially when you can just hit the edit button.
 

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This was actually one of the things I didn’t mention because it would make the post too long.

For some women, it makes them feel like they’re in a movie where they’re the main character, (gives them that attention, validation, spotlight is on them, like they’re that girl, that popular chick, etc.); I find that to be true more for white chicks if I’m being honest. For others, it makes them feel like they’re the queen bitch; this one is more true for black chicks from what I’ve seen. Stuff like this is why I said above it varies from culture to culture and person to person.

With some women, it’s a byproduct of other aspects of female nature. Say for instance you’re at work and you and a girl are assigned a task to do, and the girl keeps asking questions about it that to you seem completely pointless and repetitive and don’t really matter. Women do that because they want to try to figure out how the task is rather than what the task is. What’s important is the task itself, not so much how it’s done, which is we as men think to ourselves “just use common sense, ffs”.

The other thing I wanted to say was that to many women, the problems that come along with that drama act as a ‘challenge’, and that helps fuel the rush and the ego boost that comes along with coming out on top of the drama.
I am like that too sometimes though I am not a girl.
 

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You speak for yourself on this one.

Also, please stop spamming the forums. There’s no need to make one post right after the other a few minutes apart, especially when you can just hit the edit button.
I think there are more who like drama in the forum.

Every movie, every entertainment is basically drama. Even an action film is a fast version of a drama movie.

Everybody likes drama but different versions of that. Some guys like to be also the movie star here in real life they copy "Conan the barbarian", " Clint Easwood". That is then the "pokerface" drama-action heroe.

The difference might be that guys like more serious drama: war drama, hero stuff

The girls like more familiy drama and comedy I guess.
 
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