Since today is German Unification Day I'd like to say something about Unity in general.
People are looking for union all the time, especially women, yet they should look for union within themselves first. I know that there is a pathetic lack of effort when it comes to uniting our bright and dark sides within ourselves. Yes, it's so much easier to ignore your dark sides, your weaknesses, your fears and your desires that aren't congruent with your morals. Your first step towards a better life is uniting your heart and your mind, getting in tune with your feelings, having control over them but still accepting them.
Some people don't realize how lucky we are as men. We DO NOT have to change for women to get them. We just have to change for ourselves and women will automatically be attracted towards us. Some people still believe there is a magic pill or some way we have to act to get women.
THIS IS NOT TRUE!
Your success with women is a reflection of your success in being in tune with yourself and your masculine side. The question shouldn't be: How do I attract women? But rather: How do I accept myself and improve to become what I always wanted to be?
Unification... If you see your heart and you feelings and your fears as your enemies, then they will wage war against you. And this war inside you is going to affect everything you are and other people will notice.
My turning point was when I accepted that I was the problem. My turning point was when I accepted my failures and fears and improved on them. Sometimes I mess up because I am too nervous and I am afraid of something. But you can be sure that I fail with a smile on the inside, already making plans how to succeed next time!
People are looking for union all the time, especially women, yet they should look for union within themselves first. I know that there is a pathetic lack of effort when it comes to uniting our bright and dark sides within ourselves. Yes, it's so much easier to ignore your dark sides, your weaknesses, your fears and your desires that aren't congruent with your morals. Your first step towards a better life is uniting your heart and your mind, getting in tune with your feelings, having control over them but still accepting them.
Some people don't realize how lucky we are as men. We DO NOT have to change for women to get them. We just have to change for ourselves and women will automatically be attracted towards us. Some people still believe there is a magic pill or some way we have to act to get women.
THIS IS NOT TRUE!
Your success with women is a reflection of your success in being in tune with yourself and your masculine side. The question shouldn't be: How do I attract women? But rather: How do I accept myself and improve to become what I always wanted to be?
Unification... If you see your heart and you feelings and your fears as your enemies, then they will wage war against you. And this war inside you is going to affect everything you are and other people will notice.
My turning point was when I accepted that I was the problem. My turning point was when I accepted my failures and fears and improved on them. Sometimes I mess up because I am too nervous and I am afraid of something. But you can be sure that I fail with a smile on the inside, already making plans how to succeed next time!