Alright, this forum has already helped me in another situation (thread: taking it slow? I have backed off that girl and focused on others), so I thought I would run another thing past everyone for some advice.
Basically, I have seen this one girl in the gym a couple of times, and she is single (I asked the kid that worked at the desk about her, he even said that it seemed like she was looking for a guy, but she said that every guy is an *******) Well after that day, I hadn’t seen her again and this was like 2 months ago.
I then see her show up on my facebook, so I added her as a friend, with the thought, I may never see this girl again in my gym since I hadn’t seen her for two months, so lets give this a try. She accepted and I messaged her the following day, saying, “hey, I feel like you go to my gym”, she responds, we make a lil small talk.
Low and behold, She then goes to the gym yesterday, with her friend and her mom. When I walk in, she kind of smiles at me, and I just give her a wave and go start working out, as she was in the middle of running on the treadmill and I had sh*t to do. She gets done and next thing I know she is gone. I didn’t get a chance to talk to her.
So I message her on facebook later that night saying about seeing her and not getting to talk to her, in a playful manner, and she is going back and forth with me and laughing. I then say the following in an attempt to get her number and stop this back and forth stuff “im just going to lay it out for you, if you give me your number, im going to use it and ask you out on a date”
She read it, but she did not respond. I havent said anything else to her, given I am guessing she isnt interested.
Was that too much too soon, I mean I just asked her for the number and a date so to speak, but if she is looking for a guy, I didn’t see the problem. Regardless, anything more I should try? I love this chicks body, and I will probably see her in the gym again since she is planning on starting a “routine.” Maybe she just isn’t interested or talking to someone else (non-response) , but she kept going back and forth with me in a playful flirty manner, prior to me asking for her number. I was planning on just playing it cool if I see her at the gym, because it is what it is, and I dont want it to effect me because it didnt really
This seems to happen to me a lot I have noticed, where the girls that I want, I rarely seal the deal, and the girls that I could care less about it, are all over my stick. I have to be doing something wrong but I cant put my finger on it, and I want to change it because I want to start getting with girls that I think are sexy, not settling for those I don’t.
I get it that not every girl is interested and to just brush it off, but I just want to make sure I am not doing something to unattract them if I could have had a chance, rejection is no big deal to me
Basically, I have seen this one girl in the gym a couple of times, and she is single (I asked the kid that worked at the desk about her, he even said that it seemed like she was looking for a guy, but she said that every guy is an *******) Well after that day, I hadn’t seen her again and this was like 2 months ago.
I then see her show up on my facebook, so I added her as a friend, with the thought, I may never see this girl again in my gym since I hadn’t seen her for two months, so lets give this a try. She accepted and I messaged her the following day, saying, “hey, I feel like you go to my gym”, she responds, we make a lil small talk.
Low and behold, She then goes to the gym yesterday, with her friend and her mom. When I walk in, she kind of smiles at me, and I just give her a wave and go start working out, as she was in the middle of running on the treadmill and I had sh*t to do. She gets done and next thing I know she is gone. I didn’t get a chance to talk to her.
So I message her on facebook later that night saying about seeing her and not getting to talk to her, in a playful manner, and she is going back and forth with me and laughing. I then say the following in an attempt to get her number and stop this back and forth stuff “im just going to lay it out for you, if you give me your number, im going to use it and ask you out on a date”
She read it, but she did not respond. I havent said anything else to her, given I am guessing she isnt interested.
Was that too much too soon, I mean I just asked her for the number and a date so to speak, but if she is looking for a guy, I didn’t see the problem. Regardless, anything more I should try? I love this chicks body, and I will probably see her in the gym again since she is planning on starting a “routine.” Maybe she just isn’t interested or talking to someone else (non-response) , but she kept going back and forth with me in a playful flirty manner, prior to me asking for her number. I was planning on just playing it cool if I see her at the gym, because it is what it is, and I dont want it to effect me because it didnt really
This seems to happen to me a lot I have noticed, where the girls that I want, I rarely seal the deal, and the girls that I could care less about it, are all over my stick. I have to be doing something wrong but I cant put my finger on it, and I want to change it because I want to start getting with girls that I think are sexy, not settling for those I don’t.
I get it that not every girl is interested and to just brush it off, but I just want to make sure I am not doing something to unattract them if I could have had a chance, rejection is no big deal to me
