On Threesomes

[Hal9000]

This is why I think MFM threesomes are more common than MFF threesomes. More men are willing to do it.

A long term couple (either married or unmarried) could show up to a bar and find a single dude who is down to have sex with them that night. It would be much more difficult for that couple to find a third female willing to do that in the real world.

A couple is also more likely to find men willing to join them in any tech-based method than a woman willing to join them in a tech-based method.

They don't call them unicorns by accident! Lol.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

This is why I think MFM threesomes are more common than MFF threesomes. More men are willing to do it.

A long term couple (either married or unmarried) could show up to a bar and find a single dude who is down to have sex with them that night. It would be much more difficult for that couple to find a third female willing to do that in the real world.

A couple is also more likely to find men willing to join them in any tech-based method than a woman willing to join them in a tech-based method.

yuck.

 

[soulforge]

Have had several threesomes, but it's a very bad idea to dwelve into that world with a girl you care about or love. Nothing good will come out of it.

Best way to do this is, find a girl who isn't relationship worthy, and you only see casual sex potential.

The damaged girls are best for threesomes etc lol

 

[Millard Fillmore]

The threesome is the elusive fantasy that I have yet to make a reality at this point. When the topic has come up in the past, my gfs/fwbs have cited either a lack of interest in being with other women or jealousy. Just recently, I was talking fantasies with a new partner. When I brought up a 3some she said she didn't think she could share.

I haven't pushed super hard for it and no seemingly natural opportunities have presented themselves.

For those of you who have successfully arranged a 3some, what worked/what didn't work? How did you approach the conversation with your girl and then go about finding girl 2? Or did you pick up both at once?

Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I would really like to check this one off the list. TIA

Not pushing hard is wise. Just project the image of a guy who has them and be suggestive.

They won't ruin a relationship if you have solid frame. However the fewer strings attached the better.