"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On the verge of getting laid, but timing sucks asssss

j8snx1

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freakin' a guys, give me a small suggestion here.

im...or i was...on the verge of sleepin with this one night stand girl, but whenever she wants me its like 12 AM or 1AM and I cant drive yet. her place is 12 minutes by car, but by walking itll be like 30 minutes. im 18 but i didnt get my car yet, and leaving home around that time will get my whole family riled up about it, if i get caught.

how should i compromise with this girl, because shes alone and given privacy around 11PM to 1AM, and thats the tiem i cant really go out without a car..


older DJ's, enlighten me with your words of advice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ManUnited01

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Half an hour walk? That's nothing! Get off your ass and tap hers!
 

mrRuckus

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j8snx1 said:
12 minutes by car, but by walking itll be like 30 minutes. im 18 but i didnt get my car yet, and leaving home around that time will get my whole family riled up about it, if i get caught.

Wow you walk FAST. A little slower than half the speed of a car? Damn!!
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Maybe on foot he can take big shortcuts where it is impossible with a car,or avoid a very high traffic junction,multiple red lights etc.Really depends where he lives.Multiple times i went to places FASTER on foot rather than with the car.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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