"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On the verge of getting laid, but timing sucks asssss

j8snx1

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freakin' a guys, give me a small suggestion here.

im...or i was...on the verge of sleepin with this one night stand girl, but whenever she wants me its like 12 AM or 1AM and I cant drive yet. her place is 12 minutes by car, but by walking itll be like 30 minutes. im 18 but i didnt get my car yet, and leaving home around that time will get my whole family riled up about it, if i get caught.

how should i compromise with this girl, because shes alone and given privacy around 11PM to 1AM, and thats the tiem i cant really go out without a car..


older DJ's, enlighten me with your words of advice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ManUnited01

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Half an hour walk? That's nothing! Get off your ass and tap hers!
 

mrRuckus

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j8snx1 said:
12 minutes by car, but by walking itll be like 30 minutes. im 18 but i didnt get my car yet, and leaving home around that time will get my whole family riled up about it, if i get caught.

Wow you walk FAST. A little slower than half the speed of a car? Damn!!
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Maybe on foot he can take big shortcuts where it is impossible with a car,or avoid a very high traffic junction,multiple red lights etc.Really depends where he lives.Multiple times i went to places FASTER on foot rather than with the car.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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