"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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On the road of becoming a pathological liar.

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I am starting to practice this it seems hard to be a convincing liar when you haven't most of your life or had a weird feeling sometimes. What advice would you give for a guy trying to becoming more of a liar?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dustmuffin

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No women likes who i was why tell the truth
Don't give them all of the information. You don't have to lie...example

Her: what broke your heart the most.
Me: the last time I ran out of frozen waffles
Me: change subject or ask her the same question.

She wants mystery not the truth. Ltr is different.....evade
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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As a general rule its better to communicate only the truths which work in your favour, lie could be useful but requires a good planning, a good memory and knowledge of what you are lying about.

It can be useful while you work on yourself so you dont need to lie anymore.

An example of useful truth is to tell you are a professional in financial transfers instead of saying that you are a bank robber, technically you're honest.

If you lie and say that you are an historian, you better know plenty of history at least in the specialization as much as you have to remember what you said any time you meet that person, you cant get invited to a museum and answer that "old stuff is boring".
 
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