"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On the Job

jango

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See I got hired a couple of weeks ago at this amusment park and you know they bring women from all around. In my store I work with a lot of fine girls, plus the women guests who walk in (so I love going to work). I flirt a little with every girl but itz 3 in particular that I like more then the others. I'm having problems choosing between which one I should go for, or if I shouldn't go for either of them because we work together.

PS: and oh yeah one of the girlz has a BF but she's the one I feel like I would connect with the most.

Help me out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anomalous

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Every hot gurl has a BF. You can go with her and she'll dump her bf for you.

She wont dump her BF if she can have both, so dont let her have you before she broke up with BF.
 

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Yeah but I don't know if she would break up with her boyfriend and I'm not trying break up a couple. LOL. I just got lost, what do you think the best route would be: stop flirting with her or what?
 

08aisaac

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Well usually a gf is destined to break up with her BF, so you are just helping them out. It's your duty to flirt with her. In fact it's your god given freedom to flirt with her, so make your country proud and flirt your heart out, soldier.
 

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*Salute* WILL DO SIR AND I'LL MAKE IT MY DUTY TO GET THAT BOOTY *Salute*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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