"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On the fence with this one.

GlennCoCo

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Ok here is my problem. This all started with this girl who liked me back in 11th grade, I never liked her...but she always seemed to cling to me.

Fast forward 2 years...

She comes back and starts hanging out with my friend...he's a man-*****. She ends up ****ing him and now she asked him to ask me if I liked her. I don't find her attractive, but I wouldn't mind the sex.:up:

Should I just tell her I want to be friends? or should I just go with it.

Extra: I'm heading to her house with my friend today for the weekend and I'm heading to a rave, which i'll probably take some ecstasy...which will make we want to pretty much **** anything...:p

Should I avoid her or to bang her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gangster Of Love

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Why does it have to be one or the other? Why can't you just be indiferent and do your thing? No need to go out of your way to avoid her, that is already too much work.

You're there to party and have fun. So play it by ear and be sponaneous, without expecting anything. If you go in there feeling entitled to hook up (have sex) with her, and it doesn't happen, you will be here asking all of us "She used to be into me, and now the hoe won't put out, WFT?" and become obsessed with this non-sense.
 

TheSplat

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GlennCoCo said:
Should I avoid her or to bang her?

This is a question you should ask yourself, not some strangers on the internet. Do you WANT to F her? If so, then go for it. If you're hesitant, then you make the call, or let the ecstasy make it for you.
 

Hughman

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If she's acceptable to you, and it wouldn't ruin your social standing or rep if it ever leaked you tapped her, then I can't see the problem. The girl already likes you - you have very little work to do.

Tap her, and then play it aloof, as you would. Might as well make a fvck-buddy out of it. If it doesn't work out and she wants it more serious, then at least you have another notch to break down further the inner-pvssy every man has.

EDIT: If you don;t want to tap her, then just be friendly. It is her party right? Pull the LJBF card on her - that feels so so satisfying to play women at their own game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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