on the brink of snapping.. so down..

[YATTA]

I'm no expert on this but I figure I'd give it a go and help. Honestly the cure for the hurting your feeling is probably the last thing you want to hear but, you should really cut your losses and move on without her. Next time she wants you to go out with her, decline, just say you got some things to do. If you can't do that just yet and you do go with her to a mall or somewhere, last thing you should do is be holding her hand and hugging her. If she gives you a look and asks why, just say "Why? we aren't going out". Unfortunately, I think she might just look at you as a safety net for herself. She could go out to the club and hook up with random guy X as you said, if it don't work and she cant bounce back to you until next week.

It's tough, I know, to move on from a girl you loved deeply and maybe still do to this day, but as long as you hold on, you'll never be gone of those feelings.

 

[REDUCE523]

hey I went through the same emotions but I was only with my girlfriend for a year.

But a person recomended a book to me It was called " no more mr. nice guy" by robert glover

That book helped me realize a lot about me.

Now its six month later Im more confident Im out there meeting girls on a regular basis and on top of all that my ex is still trying to get with me. But all I tell her is all we can be is just friends.

 

[Ice Cold]

Tough luck man, you won't forget her. Ever


She's the one who drove you to this site. She's been with you for 3 years, you'll still feel tingling in your stomach every time you see her.

But eventually you'll think of her as past. The image will fade away.

Anyways: Concentrate on your studies, gym and go out there and approach. Don't just sit reading theory, practice approaching etc

Good luck

 

[Mysterious Adventure]

ok i went clubbing and she was there.
she was macking the guy.
she's staying over at his place.

GOOD FOR ME FOR F*CKING DOING THE THINGS I KNOW THAT'D F*CK ME UP. I DESERVE TO FEEL THIS FUCT NOW. I SHOULD'VE JUST F*CKIN STAYED AT HOME.

really hurts.

 

[Mysterious Adventure]

woke up today feeling like my heart has dropped.. broken.. i lost it. feel so suicidal right now.

 

[Walden]

MAn stick it out.

There are sh*tloads of amazing women all over the place. If you want the pain to end then go ƒuck ten other women.I guaran-damn-tee the pain will be gone by number five or six.

 

[Mysterious Adventure]

ok now i look back at my latest post and i think wtf. suicidal? i can't let a chick bully me like this man..

sorry for being so pathetic but thats REALLY how i felt this morning. its like i didn't want to wake up.. didn't want to face the day.. and this site is the only thing thats helping me get things off my chest, which in turn makes me feel better. thanks everybody.

the feeling fluctuates badly and unpredictably.. so i'd probably feel ****ty again soon.. but now i'm psyching myself to f*ck it. hope that someone comes up with this magical formula to get turned off by your ex or something. i just want to have 0 feelings for her now.

 

[DEKKA]

start working out a lot.