"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On the beach on holiday, not knowing anyone!!

JayUK

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Hey guyz, Im 18 an goin on holiday from England to the west coast of Florida, while im there, Im goin wit my mom an dad, so I wont kno anyone!?!
Last time I was therr i msaw some gurls, and managed to pluck up the courage to say 'hey do u kno where i can get a drink around herre?'
they said 'sorry were not from around herre,' and it loked like they wanted to stop and talk, but I didnt, i bottled it, I jus sort of carried on walking. I felt like a million dollars at the time, but now I wna have a conversation with some gurls.
There are always loads of gurls on the beach, sitting in crowds of about 7 or 8, and I want to go and talk to them, and maybe get a few pictures of me wit them, as a nice holiday memory (plus they are hot!)
BEin english tho, they might think im weird by the way I go over, an might think im jus tryna stalk them or be a pervert!
What can i do? I play american football, so i could ask them if they wanted to play catch? or use that as a talking point?
Or I could ask them if they would mind me sittin witht hem for a bit? I wana turn on the charm tho? what would u suggest???
Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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