"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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on stupid encounters-guys I need feedback

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I m in a situation at school where I liked someone but left it behind me because she avoids me and thinks she's the bossy type, I had thought she was kind of hot.
I am over and done with that phase.
Today out of the blue, she started organizing an area of work because there was a mouse in that room. then asked me if that was my book bag (right after she tossed it somewhere else.)
I told her yes it is mine and I asked her" Are you going to leave it there?"
When I told her that I made eye contact for a couple of seconds.
I was suprised to seee her pick it from the floor and put it in a chair.
Ofcourse I didn't make it a big deal.
But she did ! She went and told everyone another version of the story.
And people came up to me saying that I really pissed her off and " says you are a big chicken and not a man"
Guys , I don't think if I would have gone up to move it , it would have showed her like if I were a wuss .
(where I am rumours get started fast, previous this someone had told her that I liked her.) So I said to myself heck no ! I'm not going to put a sadle on my back to carry her around.
What suprises me that she did pick up my bookbag from the floor where she'd threw it and put it atop of a chair.
her friends appraoched me by saying that she left very upset and that
" I thought he was a man, but he is like an elephant afraid of a mouse."
Supposedly they think that I am a chicken.
I acted like it didn't care, since it isn't a big deal but she said about being a man,How would you handle this scenario ? any thoughts?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go talk to her.

"Wussup? I hear that you are angry at me for asking you not to leave my bag on the floor and that you are telling people I am scared of a mouse. Whats up with that ****? I'm not pissed, I just thought I should tell you if you want me to deal with a mouse for you just ask."

Sounds like you are under her skin... but she also sounds like a bit of a fruit loop. Just be cool.
 

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Awesome ! Thanks Jay,
a friend just text message me ,
heard comments that the group at school think that I'm drooling over this girl.
like i'd mentioned earlier i'm not interested because she a dumb nut.
I don't pay attention to her.
but it is affecting the enviroment in school now, should i approach her to clear up this issue? how can i potray that this person is of no interest to me to this here peoples?
 
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