"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SnowBlind77

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Alright, im in my last year of highschool, and i feel liek i dont have the respect i deserve, people are disrespecting me, and i dont know how to handle it....like their just kidding around, but if i do nothing, i look like a B*tch, and if i react, i over react and look like a tweaker. My girl sometimes gets snappy with me in front of people and i dont know how to react to that either, this has been a pretty big problem in my life. i know that you cant just "get" respect, it has to be earned, but what eh hell do i have to do to earn it? fight someone? like crap thats what it seems like it has to come down to. please help me out you guys always have some good advice. i need to earn some respect!!!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Damian

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Nobody DESERVES any respect. That's the kind of mentality that will make people think you're a total *******. People will only respect you if you respect them. Show some reverence, and don't be too egotistic. Listen to people and try not to joke around too much, but NEVER let anybody run you over. There's no real EARNING respect; it's more like MUTUALIZING.

If people start ragging on you, it just turn it into a joke. Othe people can only make you feel bad if you let them. If they're joking, kid them back. Make FUNNY comebacks and don't let them get to you. Make conversations fun, and if they disrespect you, just bounce it off with humor

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
Nobody DESERVES any respect. That's the kind of mentality that will make people think you're a total *******. People will only respect you if you respect them. Show some reverence, and don't be too egotistic. Listen to people and try not to joke around too much, but NEVER let anybody run you over. There's no real EARNING respect; it's more like MUTUALIZING.

If people start ragging on you, it just turn it into a joke. Othe people can only make you feel bad if you let them. If they're joking, kid them back. Make FUNNY comebacks and don't let them get to you. Make conversations fun, and if they disrespect you, just bounce it off with humor

-Damian
what he said =)
 
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