You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know this might sound dumb but learn how to type and spell. I use to do this but then I start realizing how dumb and imature this can be.Originally posted by urban
hey. mi problem is dis: dere is dis girl at skool hu i like n she flirtz wid me a bit (but she duz dis wid alot of guys).iv ask'd her 2 meet up at d weekend and she's ask'd me, and we hav dun. But once we meet up she'll long me off, and go sumwhere etc. one or twice we've nearly kiss'd but datz it.
Duz ne1 got ne advice 4 me.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey, I am emo, jackass.Originally posted by i am me
/\quit stereotyping. I could say something bad about suburban kids like "take off those tight shirts and quit wearing women's pants" but you'd probably get mad at that
This is my attempt at translating...Originally posted by urban
hey. mi problem is dis: dere is dis girl at skool hu i like n she flirtz wid me a bit (but she duz dis wid alot of guys).iv ask'd her 2 meet up at d weekend and she's ask'd me, and we hav dun. But once we meet up she'll long me off, and go sumwhere etc. one or twice we've nearly kiss'd but datz it.
Duz ne1 got ne advice 4 me.
I don't care if you do because that's your decision...I'm just saying that stereotyping is annoying (you got offended didn't you?)Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
Hey, I am emo, jackass.
But yeah dude, if I read your language right, what you need to do is invite her to something fun (skating, or some type of game, or a concert or something like that), and show her that you can have a good time around her(then go to a back alley and rape her. j/k). Then try making a move on her. If she acts stuck up or if she resists your move, then I'm afraid to say that she's just not that into you, if at all. Which then leads to the n word. I've met alot girls that just like to flirt with guys, but don't like to bump uglies with them. So just remember that.