"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lately me and a friend have gone to the local pool hall and a club to do some sarging and these are my first few days doing this and I've approached and chatted up several women but I still havent gotten a lay. I'm wondering though if all the interactions are helping me with getting better with girls?

And to Shezzler, when you first started hitting up clubs did you have success or did it take a while?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tactic

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Well, we need more information. You should check out Shezz's thread at the DJ Discussion.
 

08aisaac

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Well it is a pool hall so maybe you should learn how to play pool. I am glad I did. lol. But maybe if you are really good and the chicks see that then they will approach you wanting a number or to hook up. lol. But I have never been clubbing so I am not sure.
 

Jerky Boi

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Any kind of interactions with women are going to help your social skills, no matter what the outcome is of every approach.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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