"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lately me and a friend have gone to the local pool hall and a club to do some sarging and these are my first few days doing this and I've approached and chatted up several women but I still havent gotten a lay. I'm wondering though if all the interactions are helping me with getting better with girls?

And to Shezzler, when you first started hitting up clubs did you have success or did it take a while?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tactic

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Well, we need more information. You should check out Shezz's thread at the DJ Discussion.
 

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Well it is a pool hall so maybe you should learn how to play pool. I am glad I did. lol. But maybe if you are really good and the chicks see that then they will approach you wanting a number or to hook up. lol. But I have never been clubbing so I am not sure.
 

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Any kind of interactions with women are going to help your social skills, no matter what the outcome is of every approach.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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