“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Here are a selection of quotes I have collected over the years over attitudes of manhood. Their messages are as relevant now as the time they where written. Following each quote is a little commentary by me. Enjoy!

“Better the man that conquer a thousand men is the one who conquer one, himself.” – Buddha

(Everyone talks about success and achievement, and that the higher you rise socially the better you're regarded upon. But most successful men I know have lost their souls. They don’t know who they are. They are so busy ‘achieving’ and ‘overachieving’ that they lose track of the most important thing in their lives: themselves. Wealth, power and security will not strengthen character and increase wisdom.
Men must realize that there is more to life than what is provided to us by society, and that ancient values of honor, courage and strength are essential to your development as a real man, not society’s idea of a man.)

“If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.” Jim Rohn

(Stop complaining. Change what you can change and accept what you cannot. Get out there and do your damn best. If it’s a women, a job opportunity or simply that you want to live a life in the mountains alone, by all means, do what you put ur mind to and remember: “It is better to move slowly than not move at all” – Conficius)

“I live for myself and answer to nobody” - Steve Mcqueen

(Start being a jerk. Don't take crap from no-one. Be tough. Accept your darker impulses of raw sexuality and short-tempered anger and learn when to express them, don’t be afraid of them.)

“It's not the men in my life that count, it's the life in my men.” - Mae West

(Start being a little more enthused with life. Start reading philosophy, psychology and anything of interest. Start going out there and overcoming any weaknesses you might have. Work out, get strong, get fit.)

“The only man who is really free is the one who can turn down an invitation to dinner without giving any excuse” - Jules Renard

(Don’t make excuses anymore. Live free. If your freedom pisses people off, so be it. They don’t deserve you anyways. You admire a women sexually? Don’t listen to her problems, say outright "I want you now. Take off your clothes and make love to me". It’s crazy how a little unabashed honesty will get you further than any tactic used to lure women into bed)

“Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get” - George Bernard Shaw

(You have needs, desires, and goals. Analyze them OBJECTIVELY, see how much they are worth pursuing and pursue what you choose. Don’t just be a slave to your emotions. Control your emotions or they’ll control you (such as when you look back 50 years from now and figure out that tons of cash isn’t making you happy and you wasted your life earning it.)

“The only trouble with resisting temptation is that you may not get another chance” - Anonymous

(You see a women you want, go for it. I shouldn’t be emphasizing this further than the quote has.)

“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fvcked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” - Anais Nin (French feminist novelist)

(Now do you see that even feminists want to resort to primal female desire? It’s innate. It’s unobjectionable, they want a dominant sexual man.)

“As unrefined and basic as an animal's emotional equipment may be, it is not insensitive to freedom. Somewhere in the archives of crudest instinct is recorded the truth that it is better to be endangered and free than captive and comfortable.” - Tom Robbins


(Don’t follow the path others have laid out for you. Do what you damn please and live with the consequences that maybe things didn’t go your way. Try again. Harder.)


“Danger can only be overcome by more danger” - Greek proverb

(Afraid that by kissing her you'll be rejected? Then don't only kiss her, but give her the most passionate kiss she'll ever feel.)

“Maybe we have to break everything to make something better out of ourselves.” - Chuck Palahniuk


(Society has lied to us. And it’s not only the media. Culture and traditions have been revered and praised by individuals of society, yet they shouldn’t be. You should not be proud of “your” culture, you should be proud of yourself and the ones you love and respect. Culture and traditions are old, outdated modes of living. Transcend these old ways and pave the way for something new.)

“Everyone smiles with that invisible gun to their head.” - Chuck Palahniuk

(Remove the gun from society’s hand and start treating people the way they deserve. They respect you, respect them in return. They don’t respect you, then walk away or confront them, depending.)

“Man is no longer an artist, he has become a work of art.” - Freidrich Nietzche


(Work on yourself as a sculptor would a statue. You are your greatest painting, your greatest written work and your greatest creation.)

“The tragedy is when you've got sex in the head instead of down where it belongs.” D.H Lawrence

(Stop rationalizing women and get out there and meet them.)

“The shortest answer is doing the thing.” - Hemingway


(Just kiss her. Period. Screw the time or place, do it in a restaurant for all I care, but just do it.)

"Lead me, follow me, or get out of my way.” - General George S. Patton


(Others have minds too, and you should always respect that. Don’t be so proud that you a woman second-guessed your decision, just know that if you both agree with a decision, your fine. If she acts like a total b!tch and acts bored or keeps screwing your decisions and not making some of her own, then leave her and go do something else with your time.)

"Pressure makes diamonds.” – General George S. Patton


(Throw yourself out there. If you’re a virgin, hit on the most sexually experienced woman you meet and know one thing: it’s just inserting your penis in her vagina. No big deal. You want her, make damn sure you accept your role as a man and put pressure on yourself to overcome any fears or negative thoughts.)

“When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” - Lao Tzu


(You are not Alpha. The guy barking orders to the waiter is not Alpha. You are just a man who understands and accepts himself. Get that through your skull and you won’t need to compete or compare for attention.)

“Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash.” - Patton


(Don’t just jump into the middle of the ocean, do it with proper scuba gear and equipment. Don’t just sexually harass a female, make proper sexual actions according to the situation.)

“The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.” - Conficious

(When you develop proper inner game and mindset, you won’t fvck-up. Do what you feel is right and never let fear or doubt get in the way.)

“A legal kiss is never as good as a stolen one” – Guy De Maupassant

(Be naughty, kiss her when she least expects it and don’t take yourself so seriously. Make it fun.)
 
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“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” - William James

(Women will ALWAYS tests you, even years later when you’re married and sitting in your rocking chair at the age of 90. Get mad at times, show her your darker impulses, it’ll excite her, but do it from the attitude that you truly like (love) her and don’t make a fuss about it after you commented.)

“In case of doubt, attack.” - Patton

(No need to comment.)

“It's because we're so trapped in our culture, in the being of being human on this planet with the brains we have, and the same two arms and legs everybody has. We're so trapped that any way we could imagine to escape would be just another part of the trap. Anything we want, we're trained to want.” - Chuck Palahniuk

(YOU choose YOUR happiness. I don’t care if your family disowns you for not taking charge of the family business, you do what makes you happy.)

“The secret to success is to offend the greatest number of people” - George Bernard Shaw

(Be controversial, say what’s on your mind, people will respect you and remember you for it.)

Women are as wavering as the wind – Proverb

(Don’t take women seriously. They’re nuts, but loveable. If a women rejects you at first, persist a little, don’t give up that easy, change her mindset. Of course, if she keeps acting prissy, walk the hell away.)

“What a commentary on civilization, when being alone is being suspect; when one has to apologize for it, make excuses, hide the fact that one practices it - like a secret vice” - Anne Lindbergh

(If you are not happy on your own, then you are not happy with yourself, and you will always rely on others for your happiness. Learn that you have alot to explore about yourself, and do it.)

“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan "press on" has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race” - Calvin Coolidge


(Persist. Persist. And persist. Make sure you get that promotion. Make sure you get that cottage in the mountains, don’t bend to resistance. But make realistic goals, don't persist over pipe dreams AND LEARN TO TELL THE DIFFERENCE.)

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” Da Vinci

(Simple is safe. Don’t own anything too fancy. I wear a simple round neck black t-shirt with blue jeans in summer, I don’t own a cellular phone (I hate them…I own a house phone instead) and I comb my hair neatly but without gel or hair products, just water. I'm happy, things take less time and i feel free. And chicks take notice.)

“Human nature is so constructed that it gives affection most readily to those who seem least to demand it” - Bertrand Russel

(The chick at the back of English class isn’t special. If she’s being nice and respectful to you, then do likewise. If she’s a prick, don’t spend another second thinking about her, move on asap, i don't care how beautiful she is.)

“A girl in the convertible is worth five in the phone book.” - Mae West

(Forget numbers, set up dates on the spot and ‘exchange contact info’ just in case something happens. Things progress quicker and smoother this way.)

“When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.” - Tom Robbins

(AFC’s need to take a valuable lesson from this. You are your own man, you need noone else. You create your happiness. A chick is just a chick. Pvssy’s just pvssy.)

“We are so vain that we even care for the opinion of those we don't care for.” Marie Von Ebner-Eschenbach

(Nobody matters except you. One man’s opinion or a hundred mens opinion about you will not make a difference to your honor and self-respect.)

I hope this was helpful to newbies and DJ’s alike. Who would of thought that learning how to get laid would be a course in self-improvement? In the words of Orson Welles:

"We built civilization to impress our girlfriends"
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks. Great post.
 

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All good, but I like this one the best:

"We don't want any sad stories in porn" ~ Ron Jeremy

Your sob story will not get you laid.
 

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Where do the Chuck Pahlniuk quotes actually come from? Does he have a book of essays or interviews or something? I read Fight Club (better movie than book, actually).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

shiningshadow

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This is a very well done thread.
 

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Hey guys, thx for the comments!

The Chuck Palahniuk quotes are collected off the net, but I assume they're from his books (I only read 'Survivor' and 'Fight Club').
 

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I feel alive everytime I visit this forum. Posts like these are the reason.
 

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Here are a couple more good quotes from West

A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him.
--Mae West

He who hesitates is a damned fool.
--Mae West
 

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Hey Cleric, this one's for you pal ;)

"Man loves danger and sport, hence his love for women, the most dangerous of all sports"
- Nietzsche
 
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