"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On making physical advances

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I have worked my C+F game and played all my cards right in the initial stages....

lets say the woman is all smitten for me now..... She is waiting for something....she is waiting for me to do something.... like make an advance of some sort.....i can feel this pressure on me...

but I just wuss out!!!! I am very inexperienced at this level of the game....

I need somebody to walk me through on how to make sexual advances on women....
[I am way over that initial seduction/C+F and all that junk....this is the meat of the matter...and there is very little written on it]

HELP!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by chicksrock
I have worked my C+F game and played all my cards right in the initial stages....

lets say the woman is all smitten for me now..... She is waiting for something....she is waiting for me to do something.... like make an advance of some sort.....i can feel this pressure on me...

but I just wuss out!!!! I am very inexperienced at this level of the game....

I need somebody to walk me through on how to make sexual advances on women....
[I am way over that initial seduction/C+F and all that junk....this is the meat of the matter...and there is very little written on it]

HELP!
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Touch. Once you touch a girl, her body releases endorphins in certain stages.

It's all about touch.
 
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Re: Re: On making physical advances

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Touch. Once you touch a girl, her body releases endorphins in certain stages.

It's all about touch.
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Thanks renegade... I guess from touch you would slowly progress to a kiss...
but I am having difficulty progressing!!
(I guess at the inner core of myself I am scared of rejection or doing something awkward!)
 
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Just start with something simple...maybe even something playful. Give her a hug or put your arm around her.

Renegade is right....just start with a simple touch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First thing, isolation. I suggest your place, explain later.

Plan a good outing. I recommend some kind of action date. Ice skating is golden. Kino is basically a given on this one. Even if you do know how to skate, you need help RIGHT? Get into a Gunwitch state of mind.

Later has arrived, explainion of your place will comense. Keep your place up, every room just in case there is a tour. You can't have dirty close and pizza boxes laying around. And the unsuspected log in your tolet should be flushed. hehe. All dishes clean and put away, etc. Set some good lighting before you leave, so the place already lite when you get there.

Plan A would be to get her in your room, but if that doesn't work then Plan B would be the living room. Suggest a movie(nothing too good were she will get caught up in it, your trying to make your move) or tv(commerical breaks are good) whatever. Since both of you are close making a move will be easy. If you can't find an opening. This one is criminal (easy way out), say "hey I have a secret to tell you." Then act like your going to wisper in her ear then give her a kiss on the cheek. If she doesn't freak out then go for the lips. Or get into a playful debate then say how can I get you to shut up? Then go in for the kiss.

Anyway, making out is the first step. If its in your bed thats even better. You want it to be too convenient so things just happen. Like don't have your bed made up just in case you want to get under the covers, so don't have to get up. Then from there just try to round those bases. If you can get to third then its a done deal.

So your scared of rejection. Don't worry maybe she just needs alittle more time to get more comfortable with you.

Like this one chick I went out with. It took me a month and a half to get into those panties and let me tell you I tried from DAY 1. So don't make a big deal if your hand gets pulled for the sker-chas-skerch.
 
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Re: Re: Re: On making physical advances

Originally posted by chicksrock
Thanks renegade... I guess from touch you would slowly progress to a kiss...
but I am having difficulty progressing!!
(I guess at the inner core of myself I am scared of rejection or doing something awkward!)
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Experience :)
 
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This one is criminal (easy way out), say "hey I have a secret to tell you." Then act like your going to wisper in her ear then give her a kiss on the cheek. If she doesn't freak out then go for the lips. Or get into a playful debate then say how can I get you to shut up? Then go in for the kiss.

hahahaaha ... i really like this...you are such a god damn playa turbolover!! :)

Hollowpoint .. thanks for the DJ BIBLE link :rolleyes:
 
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