"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On loving and taking risks

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The Red Pill has taught us so many things, and the result could make us reluctant to love and take risks.

Have you all experienced the power of love?
We've all been there before.

The problem is, should we ever lose that powerful love?

That inner feeling is something we must hold on to, and continue to show it in all areas of our lives.

It's your uniqueness, your strength, that will help you face dark times.

Don't confuse this with being AFC or a nice guy.

The clear difference is that the nice guy will continue to give that love and respect to everyone, even those who hurt him.

A mature person learns to always give that love to everyone, but will also know how to ensure that those who don't respect him don't receive this gift.

However, if you're someone who's followed the red pill, and you keep this love for life and people inside because you're afraid to love and take risks, then you'll be seen as strange and mysterious... and believe me, there's nothing attractive after people get to know you.

We know well that seduction satisfies some unmet needs, while love and care for the soul are truly what will allow you to appreciate so many other things in life.

Now, for all those who have understood and loved their lives, and who love people, how do they feel inside when they have to "limit" themselves to loving a few, and only those, people who didn't respect them?

I met a friend who changed my perspective and attitude towards life... his leadership was different... not authoritarian but inspiring, and the way he was making lasting friends, was him just loving.
He loved everyone he met, yet I still thought he was too AFC, with little backbone.

So I looked inside myself and saw that all my experiences were in which people took advantage of a good person like me, and then I learned how to gain respect, but at the same time, it was like turning off a faucet with certain people.

It's like a dog that wags its tail and welcomes people, but with some, it won't.

How do you do it?
How do you manage to love your life, flow that love into people around you, job, activities, etc, but at the same time, keep that gift away from those who dont respect you? (Be that women or men in your life)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Red Pill has taught us so many things, and the result could make us reluctant to love and take risks.

Have you all experienced the power of love?
We've all been there before.

The problem is, should we ever lose that powerful love?

That inner feeling is something we must hold on to, and continue to show it in all areas of our lives.

It's your uniqueness, your strength, that will help you face dark times.

Don't confuse this with being AFC or a nice guy.

The clear difference is that the nice guy will continue to give that love and respect to everyone, even those who hurt him.

A mature person learns to always give that love to everyone, but will also know how to ensure that those who don't respect him don't receive this gift.

However, if you're someone who's followed the red pill, and you keep this love for life and people inside because you're afraid to love and take risks, then you'll be seen as strange and mysterious... and believe me, there's nothing attractive after people get to know you.

We know well that seduction satisfies some unmet needs, while love and care for the soul are truly what will allow you to appreciate so many other things in life.

Now, for all those who have understood and loved their lives, and who love people, how do they feel inside when they have to "limit" themselves to loving a few, and only those, people who didn't respect them?

I met a friend who changed my perspective and attitude towards life... his leadership was different... not authoritarian but inspiring, and the way he was making lasting friends, was him just loving.
He loved everyone he met, yet I still thought he was too AFC, with little backbone.

So I looked inside myself and saw that all my experiences were in which people took advantage of a good person like me, and then I learned how to gain respect, but at the same time, it was like turning off a faucet with certain people.

It's like a dog that wags its tail and welcomes people, but with some, it won't.

How do you do it?
How do you manage to love your life, flow that love into people around you, job, activities, etc, but at the same time, keep that gift away from those who dont respect you? (Be that women or men in your life)
If you look into most authoritative scriptural texts around the world, including teachings of Jesus, he preached to Love your enemies and those that persecutes you. Now does that mean to be a suck up? No of course not, it means to love those people who hurts you within certain boundaries and distance if you have to. Learn to forgive and let go and love them from a distance and hold no grudges for that will only wear you down.
 

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Learn to forgive and let go and love them from a distance and hold no grudges for that will only wear you down.
This is true, but in words it is too simple and almost impossible to put it into practice when you frequent these people every day for various commitments: work, family, etc.
 
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