"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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On-line forums, dating crap

MightyMate

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Mainly i have my own idea on the situation, but as i am not very skilled in on-line datings i`ll maybe ask here for advice/ideas whenever ill use them or not.
Shortly. By a total coincidence at some kind of forums i started chattin with a girl. We started to chat daily on the forum topic, and then i saw her pic. Definatelly hot and my type. Then we were chatting about usual stuff, got some crappy or however You can call it on-line connection, we even saw each others at some spots in real life but never been sure if its us, and situations were so fast that we never spoke. Then after some time of chattin the girl got mad on me coz i didnt want to do what she asked me for [give her for 3rd time same informtion as i gave her before]. Anyways.
I didnt meet her since some time, but we go to some same spots and its mainly possible for me to get in touch with her in real life, i just wasnt at those spots lately. Since she got mad shes not rewriting to any messages [i also dont write anything too long, mainly just 'hey whats up?].
So whats the suggestion to do now to hit her. Write her something on the crap forum [if so, what] or just wait till i meet her. Or maybe both.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bman

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its a numbers game, never put all your eggs in one basket, its just as easy to find another girl.
 
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