"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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On-line forums, dating crap

MightyMate

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Mainly i have my own idea on the situation, but as i am not very skilled in on-line datings i`ll maybe ask here for advice/ideas whenever ill use them or not.
Shortly. By a total coincidence at some kind of forums i started chattin with a girl. We started to chat daily on the forum topic, and then i saw her pic. Definatelly hot and my type. Then we were chatting about usual stuff, got some crappy or however You can call it on-line connection, we even saw each others at some spots in real life but never been sure if its us, and situations were so fast that we never spoke. Then after some time of chattin the girl got mad on me coz i didnt want to do what she asked me for [give her for 3rd time same informtion as i gave her before]. Anyways.
I didnt meet her since some time, but we go to some same spots and its mainly possible for me to get in touch with her in real life, i just wasnt at those spots lately. Since she got mad shes not rewriting to any messages [i also dont write anything too long, mainly just 'hey whats up?].
So whats the suggestion to do now to hit her. Write her something on the crap forum [if so, what] or just wait till i meet her. Or maybe both.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bman

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its a numbers game, never put all your eggs in one basket, its just as easy to find another girl.
 
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