On: How to become sex worthy / Girl flaked , what do i do now ?

[Daddy The Pimp]

I will discuss two topics that are on demand here.
I get many PM's and these are the main questions that i get asked.

• How do i become sexworthy
• This girl i got the number from flaked on me , what should i do next ?

I've had many PM's that where dudes ask me how to become sex worthy , how to become good , what they should do and such a stuff.

Most of the time , i ignore these PM's because just the fact that these guys are in this forum tells me that they know exactly what they should do. Here is a PM that i replied back.

1. How do i become sex worthy ?

Hey whats up man. I read some of your posts and like your mindset. What do you think I can do to become a sex worthy guy who can meet new women on a weekly basis. I look good and im tall and have all of the superficial things women would want, but I suck at life right now and have little confidence. I'm shy and shut down around women. What do you think bro.

Yo bro , im going to give you an answer , but not the one that you're looking for. Because since you are in this site , and you've read half of it and also my threads , you should already know exactly what it takes to become a sex worthy man.

But what you couldn't get from the posts is that
YOU DONT BECOME A SEX WORTHY GUY , YOU EVOLVE INTO IT

This means you have to work your ass off , appraoch , get burned 1000 times until you start to " GET IT ".

Read some of my threads , and if possible , buy or download by torrents Blueprint Decoded and if you are information junkey (like i am) download Jeffy show , Transformations , Flawless Natural. Thats all you will ever need. So please , if you are ready , promise yourself that you're going to do this no matter what. I did many things that im embarrased of to get myself where i am , but i don't regret any moment . Its not about the results you get , its about the journey , the game that you play and how you use it to get there.

Also , as you can see from my activity on this site , im no longer a part of comunity. I just come here some times to check my inbox and reply to the brothers that ask for my help specifically.

And it was when i left comunity the time that i got into the next level. I want to hear from you again , i want to see how's your progress going and are you doing what you're supposed to do.

Peace , im out. Good luck.

PS: If you're not ready to bear with all the progress , you don't deserve the result that you're going to get at the end.

And result is not banging hot chicks every day. Is becoming a man who knows his values and don't let anything step in his way. So , getting women every week and becoming sexworthy is just a side effect of being a MAN. A real man.

So , get this. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL. Whether you are 40 year old who never had a girlfrined , extreme case of introvert or a natural Don Juan , same principles apply to everyone.
Go out , get burned million times , enjoy the process , laugh it off and thats it. The programs that i introduced will help you internalize some beliefs. Once you do that , every mistake that you're doing in field will auto-correct in time.

2.This girl i got the number from flaked on me , what should i do next ?

Burn that number. Delete it. Dispose it. Persistance is good but not when you're a chode and give a fvck about that number. One of the key principles of becoming good in this game is abundance. When you no longer care , thats when you get it. By now , you should be on the club taking at least 4-5 numbers a night ( or at least trying to get them ). You should be gaming all the time , getting new numbers all the time. One girl flakes ? BIG DEAL. Next number.

I get pissed when i see threads with the same title pop up because i see that these guys got lucky by getting one number. By getting only one number a month or so , you will want to get something out of it. You will want that number to work. You will want to get her to like you. And thats when the neediness happens. Thats when you turn her off. Thats when you start to loose her. But if you call her and you're able to convey by your tonality that you don't need her to make you happy , you're just calling to see how she is and offer some value , THATS when you get her attracted , hooked , seduced.

Just to clear the air a little bit , tonality is crutial. For example , you would speak , behave differently if your best bud calls you than when Angelina Jolie calls you. This if it like that. Think how would your tonality change , how chode/AFC you would sound if she called you all of the sudden. And think how confident you sound if your brother / best friend calls you.

Watch James Bond for alpha tonality / body language.

Life is good. Go out , approach , enjoy the game. Do yourself a favor.
2010 is approaching , make a commitment to yourself that you will become better with women and more socially calibrated by 2011. Promise yourself. And keep it.

Im out.

 

[playerone]

That's the truth.

+1

 

[thedude4242]

nice stuff

 

[thedude4242]

so you mean talk to the girls like they are your best friends you are talking to, meaing act like they are going to like and accept what you say?

 

[Al Moh.]

How to become sexworthy??? Are you kidding me? Haven't you learned ANYTHING???

 

[playerone]

so you mean talk to the girls like they are your best friends you are talking to, meaing act like they are going to like and accept what you say?

Let's see it this way.

You don't care if they are going to like and accept what you say, as long as you are happy with it (given that you're not being creepy).

They have to be cool with what you say, and how you act, as long as you're being a Man. You're calm, confident, sexual, masculine. They are either interested or they are not. If it's the latter, sayonara.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Let's see it this way.

You don't care if they are going to like and accept what you say, as long as you are happy with it (given that you're not being creepy).

They have to be cool with what you say, and how you act, as long as you're being a Man. You're calm, confident, sexual, masculine. They are either interested or they are not. If it's the latter, sayonara.

Yea exactly. But whether they take your bullsh1t or not depends on your sub communication. This is crutial. People measure other people by their gestures , tonality and body language. You can see that a popular guy talks differently.

Think of James Bond. Think of Gene Simmons. Think of Bret Michael. Their tonality conveys high value. Imagine if one of them comes up to you , looks you straight deep into your eyes and introduces himself. He keeps his head high , talks with confidence and deep voice , is chill and unreactive. First you make a bad face , like , why is this fvck talking to me. But they don't react to it and just keep talking.
Its like , you cannot change their perception of reality. They have their own world.

We as humans are hard wired to respond to someone with stronger frame in a different way. In a better way. Think of the teacher , when he asked you "DID YOU DO YOUR HOMEWORK ?". Did he ask you with politeness and soft voice ? Or was it dominant and made you react to that ? Or think of when you get pulled by a cop. Think of the tonality he uses on you. Thats what i want you to use folks. I want YOU to be in charge. I want YOU to be in the position of power.

Get these down and youll dominate every conversation whether is with your friends or with girls or amog or anyone.

A good exercise would be if you just analyze a little bit people who are alpha and get other people to react to them. Just watch how they talk and how they respond to anything. Than try to be that way.

Now go out , demand attention , assume attraction and LORD THE CLUB.
Peace out.

 

[CarlitosWay]

Some great info...I had one person tell me I sounded like a ****in' gladiator the other day...... I definitely do my best to make my role known to most people and especially when I speak to my little sisters boyfriend. I'm gonna keep it that way to LOL