"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got this girl i've been chillin with for a few weeks...she will blow me/give me handjobs but never till I nut and usually very briefly.... I've tried giving her head she likes it and all but whenever I go to do it she pulls me head away and stops me. She is also not down for sex yet, because it would be too fast for her. A few weeks we've been hangin...

She won't let either of us climax basically....wtf?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maybe she's into Tantra?

No seriously that's a little strange. Why don't you ask her? There are times when speaking directly to someone is not good (ie, confessing your feelings to a oneitis for example) but I think in the bedroom it is very important.
 
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So it wouldnt be a horrible idea to talk about it instead of waiting it out till it does happen?
 
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Tell her to stay down there and finish the damn job. You have to be the boss. I've done this with one girl and it worked, she would do whatever I said after that. She was like my slave. I expect rep points for this.
 
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From my experience no, it wouldn't be a bad idea to talk about it.

However I could be wrong because so far my experience is based on a single long term girlfriend and we were extremely sexually compatible, so we could ask for pretty much anything.

It's just that if you try to 'wait it out' for her it confirms that what she's doing doesn't bother you that much since you don't say anything, and you could be waiting a long time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get rid of her...
 
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Tell her to stay down there and finish the damn job. You have to be the boss. I've done this with one girl and it worked, she would do whatever I said after that. She was like my slave. I expect rep points for this.
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This worked.

Bravo, and thank you.
 
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Tell her to stay down there and finish the damn job. You have to be the boss. I've done this with one girl and it worked, she would do whatever I said after that. She was like my slave. I expect rep points for this.
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Word.
 
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pvf94 said:
I got this girl i've been chillin with for a few weeks...she will blow me/give me handjobs but never till I nut and usually very briefly.... I've tried giving her head she likes it and all but whenever I go to do it she pulls me head away and stops me. She is also not down for sex yet, because it would be too fast for her. A few weeks we've been hangin...

She won't let either of us climax basically....wtf?
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Its as easy as mirroring...

you relax, you're already there...

completely relax and let her do it, get really sexual, its hard to explain unless I had a girl giving me head while you watch lol... just go with the flow and relax, be turned on by her not all nervous and she'll do it for you.... and dont let the vibe chnge, you'll nut in her mouth the next time if not on her tits or shirt if she prefers on or off...

no controlling this situation by brute testosterone.
you use your brain in this situation because at this point it's not about her wanting to or not bc she obviously does, but it now concerns morals and ****... how will she feel and be looked on, you have to be smoooth... be one with her at this poitn feel me?
 
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Tell her to stay down there and finish the damn job. You have to be the boss. I've done this with one girl and it worked, she would do whatever I said after that. She was like my slave. I expect rep points for this.
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sorry guy but thats the craziest thing I've ever heard when it comes to being in the middle of getting it on? im being serious...

how do you figure that works, i just cant fatham a girl feeling secure enough to keep going when the pressure of our culture is being pressed upon her hard enough as it is while she's even making out let alone giving head...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
sorry guy but thats the craziest thing I've ever heard when it comes to being in the middle of getting it on? im being serious...

how do you figure that works, i just cant fatham a girl feeling secure enough to keep going when the pressure of our culture is being pressed upon her hard enough as it is while she's even making out let alone giving head...
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and how again are youa straight up pimp? LOL. A man commands, the woman follows. You know how many women (especially black women) who say they don't give head and don't swallow? Well when you tell them to do it, they do it. Your the man, you give the orders.
 
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Warrior74 said:
and how again are youa straight up pimp? LOL. A man commands, the woman follows. You know how many women (especially black women) who say they don't give head and don't swallow? Well when you tell them to do it, they do it. Your the man, you give the orders.
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haha this works.

Oddly. But whatever I'm not complaining she does anything now....even got anal.
 
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