So as some of you know, I've been gone a lot because I am currently in medical school.
I was in my genetics class where we were talking about certain diseases and our professor multiple cases where when testing for genetic diseases and they find out he is not actually the father, they don't tell him.
I call him out about it being a moral gray area if they do not report this kind of thing, and he said "The Father never asked. It was the mother who came in for the visit and we didn't want to escalate the situation." He justified it by saying they never lied, since the father never asked about paternity, they just never told him.
He also said they especially don't say it in a lot religious situations since that usually causes the complete breakdown of the family (as it should I would argue, it is built on a lie). Which is kind of messed up since most people always say turn to the religious women who are less like to stray (Hint: that guy standing up and getting people to listen to him for 1 hr- 5 hr every friday, sat, or sunday depending on your religion is the AMOG).
What to do? You have to personally ask for for genetic testing between your son. If you leave it up to the mother it will be a lie 100% of the time. Get everything they say in writing or on voicemail. They won't lie in that scenario, since if it is ever discovered they lied to you, you could sue them out of their ass. They will say the truth more out of fear complications will arise in the future if they lie. Watch how they talk, and get a RP doctor you can trust.
Doctors as a whole are more worried about the breakup of the family than telling the truth about the father's paternity. Put them in a situation where you can sue if they lied to you and you will get the truth. Don't let it go through your wife.
I was in my genetics class where we were talking about certain diseases and our professor multiple cases where when testing for genetic diseases and they find out he is not actually the father, they don't tell him.
I call him out about it being a moral gray area if they do not report this kind of thing, and he said "The Father never asked. It was the mother who came in for the visit and we didn't want to escalate the situation." He justified it by saying they never lied, since the father never asked about paternity, they just never told him.
He also said they especially don't say it in a lot religious situations since that usually causes the complete breakdown of the family (as it should I would argue, it is built on a lie). Which is kind of messed up since most people always say turn to the religious women who are less like to stray (Hint: that guy standing up and getting people to listen to him for 1 hr- 5 hr every friday, sat, or sunday depending on your religion is the AMOG).
What to do? You have to personally ask for for genetic testing between your son. If you leave it up to the mother it will be a lie 100% of the time. Get everything they say in writing or on voicemail. They won't lie in that scenario, since if it is ever discovered they lied to you, you could sue them out of their ass. They will say the truth more out of fear complications will arise in the future if they lie. Watch how they talk, and get a RP doctor you can trust.
Doctors as a whole are more worried about the breakup of the family than telling the truth about the father's paternity. Put them in a situation where you can sue if they lied to you and you will get the truth. Don't let it go through your wife.
