on conversations

[Doyle98]

is it normal to be often thinking of possible things to think about before u talk to her? i don't do this usually but with a girl that i like i often find myself brainstorming possible things to say, before i say it to her. and to top it off the convo usually goes quiet after or something happens. with girls that are already my friends i can keep it goin forever.

and what helps u guys when approaching women, any key words that run thru ur mind before hand, that might be able to help me when talking with her?

 

[Nohitme Highmnu]

Are you talking about over the phone??? Because if you are, I usually write down a couple things that I could talk about should I feel the momentum of the conversation begin to falter.

One or two topics, maybe things that happened where I met the women. But that is only for a first call, because after that there should be something to talk about. I find it's usually best to start with the "how have you been?" or equivalent... it's usually enough to get something started.