"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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my dad is self employed, he didnt have much work recently and when asked for a quote on a job he did not quote as much as he could/should have.

so his work picks up a bit and he is more confident with quoting higher because hes got money and if he quotes to high and the client goes else where, then its not the end of the world hes still doing well.

Think about girls now! if you have few girls you will lack confidence, the confidence to act as you want to because if that girl does not like it and stops liking you well you can not afford for her to not like you.

If you are freindly with a lot of girls then you act as you want, if one does not liek it and stops liking you then it will not bother you too much.

ne social pick up as many girls as you can and you will gain confidence by knowing you are in a safe position.

not convinced yet? ever noticed that if a certain product people like, is limited in supply ie the producres announce there will be a shortage then people rush out to stock up on it, when there is not much of it left then do not have the confidence to asume there will be some left so they all rush out and buy it.

if people did not change their consumption patterns due ot the anouncment then in most cases it would not run out, only when people rush out to buy it does it run out.

Girls will like you more if you are confident and juse like explained above if you have a lot of girls you are freindly with then you will be mroe confident with them because you will not wory about any one of them so much!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There was another post on this ages ago, about some guy who was a accountant or something.. And about setting your price high etc, should read that.
 
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