"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm actually being very well behaved on this thread. I could always share my own personal views on foreskin and offend every uncut guy reading this and cause a mass posting frenzy calling me all kinds of names, lol.Serialized3 said:I think we should ban Nighthawk and Wyld from circumcision threads, the same way Deux should be banned from looks matter threads.
The United Nations, National Institute of Health and many other well-respected organizations disagree with you because their websites quite clearly point out that there ARE health benefits to being circumcised. Yes, it's optional and is done for both religious and cosmetic reasons...but there ARE people who circumcise their sons in the spirit of preventing against future medical problems like that the OP faced and additional protections against STDS, Urinary Tract Infections and Penile Cancer.Potbelly said:
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No, I know you're being restrained on this one. But it always seems that the lamers on here use stuff like this to flame you. Then half the time the thread gets locked and then they get banned so oh well...Wyldfire said:
Cesare Cardinali
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Stop insulting Wyldfire in this thread and keep it on topic. The mods are keeping tabs on who's starting fights with whom and in this case, you guys are asking for it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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How do you know that circumcision was the greatest thing ever, when you haven't lived with a uncircumcised penis? Majority of men who gets circumcised in their adults actually go back and get their fore-skin reattached.TyTe`EyEs said:
So what if you have a less chance of contracting STDs... ever heard of CONDOMS? Oh yea keeping a good hygiene is SO HARD with a uncircumcised penis, you just have to pull it back. I guess most American men are too lazy to pull it back.
PeterNorthisawesome
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You know what? I'm sick and tired of this place, ppl asking the same quetions over and over, idiots argueing over the samething and are too bull headed to change their views. I'm going to go chill with Pook, David Delanglo, Tucker Max and Maddox. Please do me a favor mod and ban me. It's not like you have anything better to do since there are million other threads about religion, politics and flame wars that you haven't CLOSED and allowing TROLLS like Wyldfire, Docs and Dues to spread their BS. Seriously if you're going to be a mod do you damn job, instead of popping in once every couple months.Cesare Cardinali said:
Wyldfire your 40 year old ignorant fool, a true DJ will never marry or spend time with you. That's why you're divorced with kids who think marrying at 18 is alright. You look fat in the picture mayb you should spend more time on your looks like every other woman. Why u getting a major when your 40? Your 17 behind everyone... you know why I think you spend so much time on this board? So you can feel better about yourself and give advice to AFCs, so you can actually feel like your worth something. GET A LIFE MAN.
To the others thank for all the advice, this forum is good for people who know how to use it right. Peace out.
You're leaving? Cool...don't forget to take your foreskin with you! :crackup:PeterNorthisawesome said:You know what? I'm sick and tired of this place, ppl asking the same quetions over and over, idiots argueing over the samething and are too bull headed to change their views. I'm going to go chill with Pook, David Delanglo, Tucker Max and Maddox. Please do me a favor mod and ban me. It's not like you have anything better to do since there are million other threads about religion, politics and flame wars that you haven't CLOSED and allowing TROLLS like Wyldfire, Docs and Dues to spread their BS. Seriously if you're going to be a mod do you damn job, instead of popping in once every couple months.
Wyldfire your 40 year old ignorant fool, a true DJ will never marry or spend time with you. That's why you're divorced with kids who think marrying at 18 is alright. You look fat in the picture mayb you should spend more time on your looks like every other woman. Why u getting a major when your 40? Your 17 behind everyone... you know why I think you spend so much time on this board? So you can feel better about yourself and give advice to AFCs, so you can actually feel like your worth something. GET A LIFE MAN.
To the others thank for all the advice, this forum is good for people who know how to use it right. Peace out.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
djSlvt
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Cesare Cardinali said:
You're getting pvssy because you know the mods. :yes:
Oh...and Ces...DJSlvt is actually not insulting me. He's joking...and I dare say he actually appreciates me being on this site quite a bit. He and I are cool...even if we disagree on the issue of foreskin.
TyTe`EyEs
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I was being sarcastic. I have no basis for comparison.PeterNorthisawesome said:
I do love how people pull out the American sh1t all the time. You pretty much kill your own argument when you resort to stereotyping.
How about make it easier: Why not ban both looks threads and cirumcision threads because they don't help anybody.Serialized3 said:I think we should ban Nighthawk and Wyld from circumcision threads, the same way Deux should be banned from looks matter threads.
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Come on, you know you want to!Nighthawk said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
djSlvt
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Wyldfire said:
And what did I say???
Serialized3
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We should just have one massive circumsized/looks-matters thread that will be 264 pages of flames and half-baked arguments.DJDamage said:
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Yea, this is a pretty hot issue in America today. So many American males are circumcised, and the trend is sort of fading. Now that we know the cleanliness issue is bogus (all you have to do is pull the foreskin back to clean it, something an uncut guy will do countless times anyway) it's hard to come up with a coherent argument for mutilation. C'mon, what if we told women we were going to cut off their ****s because it LOOKS better? Get real.Redux said:
OK, so there are some minor benefits to getting cut. But you have to weigh those against the drawbacks. You mutilate your body because it saves you one second in the shower? Because it decreases your chances of getting STDs? I'd rather take the extra second to pull it back in the morning, and not have sex with skanks.
You know you have zero chance of athelete's foot if you cut off your feet, right?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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