"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I figure this applies to pick-up because it's killing my self-confidence...

Last week I got my hair cut, and since I have a few blemishes on my forehead I decided to get OXY brand acne pads.

Anyway I've been using them for about a week now and I have a rather large breakout on my forehead. I've never had a bad case of acne in my almost 17 years of life.

Now I did some research and it says on wikihow, I believe, that these acne care products cause previously unseen blemishes to rise to the surface to be unclogged.

Ignore the above if you think you know better, but my question is how do I get rid of my acne?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go to a homeopath.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Watch what you eat. If you're eating a lot of dairy and meat in your diet it will definitely add to the problem also try and cut down on junk food and soda/juice. Just drink water. I went vegetarian for about 2 years and have never had better skin in my life.
 

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Watch what you eat. If you're eating a lot of dairy and meat in your diet it will definitely add to the problem also try and cut down on junk food and soda/juice. Just drink water. I went vegetarian for about 2 years and have never had better skin in my life.
Show me a vegetarian diet that's high in protein and will help me gain weight in muscle and I'll gladly convert
 

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I really like using St. Ives daily face scrub. I use it in the shower and it keeps my skin hella-clean and prevents breakouts.

The key to treating your acne is simple: try different things for 1-2 months at a time until you find something that works REALLY well.

If you have health insurance, you should really see a dermatologist. The medication that they give you will help speed things up drastically, and may completely eliminate any bad acne that you have.
 

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Cut the fast food, cut the sugar and cut washing your face with chemicals. You should see result instantaneously.
 

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Cut the fast food, cut the sugar and cut washing your face with chemicals. You should see result instantaneously.
I don't eat fast food, I've been cutting down on sugar (even though I barely take in any), and the only "chemical" I've been using is 2% salicylic acid pads...

*awaits instantaneous results*
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how long have you had the outbreak? And you haven't had any before, really? I would suggest not using the oxy stuff for a while to see if it calms down with just regular ol' washing your face, etc. If it wasn't that bad before, maybe it's an isolated incident, which you may have aggravated.
 

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Those pads are fairly useless. Salicylic acid is just aspirin. Plus they probably contain alcohol, which dries out skin at first but actually increases oil production.

Benzoyl peroxide 10% cream oughtta take care of it. It's as good as anything a dermatologist is gonna give you, unless you want to go on antibiotics which you don't really need.

I have had acne problems for awhile, and benzoyl peroxide a couple times a week (or daily if there's an outbreak) keeps it at bay. At my age, I found that it was mostly due to contact with bacteria (pillowcases etc.) and not internal in origin. I also use Neutrogena face cleaner daily and used to use apricot scrub, but they're not as important.
 
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