On beliefs

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Fender

Senior Don Juan

Apr 17, 2006

I know we all should have the belief that we are the prize, etc.etc.

But HOW do we actually get those beliefs? Here's a list I came up with:

http://zenfender.blogspot.com/2006/04/i-believe.html

(note:there are no step-by-step instructions there. Just what I consider a comprehensive list of how-to's. If you have any more to add, feel free to comment)

-fender-

p.s. that blog is just used as my personal "self-help" diary of sorts- I just write notes to help myself improve. No real seduction stuff in there.

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.