On beliefs

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Fender

Senior Don Juan

Apr 17, 2006

I know we all should have the belief that we are the prize, etc.etc.

But HOW do we actually get those beliefs? Here's a list I came up with:

http://zenfender.blogspot.com/2006/04/i-believe.html

(note:there are no step-by-step instructions there. Just what I consider a comprehensive list of how-to's. If you have any more to add, feel free to comment)

-fender-

p.s. that blog is just used as my personal "self-help" diary of sorts- I just write notes to help myself improve. No real seduction stuff in there.

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.