On Being Interesting

[destiny]

Hey i have this question.. i know you have to be interesting to make the girl interested in you right.. so i know how to be interesting but i don't know how to ALWAYS be interesting..

So my question is what's the way to become the guy that's always interesting and the guy that everybody talks to!

appreciate your help <3



Make Love,
Destiny

 

[Master Bates]

I wish I knew the secret. I think more than anything, you have to have had an interesting life and done interesting things to talk about, and be a skilled conversationalist and story teller. You need to be able to communicate your stories/ideas/opinions etc in a way that engages people and lets them relate to it. I've led a really uneventful life and I'm a terrible story teller, so it goes without saying that generally strangers don't find me very interesting.

 

[Obsidian]

You have to be an ACTIVE person and you have to be ASSERTIVE as a man.

Being assertive doesn't mean you have to be a jerk, but you need to be decisive and willing to take charge when no one else steps up. Usually women suck at making decisions so they like a man who can lead them. For example, if you're at a party and things are dying down, you don't say "What do you want to do, my sweet? Would you like to go to a bar or back to my place?" Instead, an active and assertive person might say, "Alright, we're heading to a bar now. Let's bail."

They're both saying essentially the same thing, except that one leaves no choice up to the woman -- which is how she usually likes it.

Other than that, also get people to talk about themselves, and they'll think you're interesting.

 

[Fink]

Try being a good listeneer and expand on her conversaton with your own experences

 

[destiny]

I think that's it:You need to be able to communicate your stories/ideas/opinions etc in a way that engages people and lets them relate to it

 

[Snow Plowman]

Interesting is when a woman is seeing your personality and like "I want to be with that guy". It comes down to vibing well.

I've really got an idea of this when I was vibing with 2 of my "Female" cousins. I didn't expect us to be talking about the most retarded things for over an hour and a half. (Note: I never really talk to my family members)

But really it's about just bringing out your personality and conveying it to the girl. Being expressive and enthuasitic.

Also it's key to be outside your head because then it's like little images pops in your head and you just convey it and it just hits and your having a fun time.

Being Playful is also KEY, if you know how to play around then you'll be highly desireable, so longs its spontateous and not repetitive.