“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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On being friends with chicks

becker

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jdr120 has a good point. A friendship with a girl is usually only going to work out in 2 situations:

1. You're not interested in the girl

2. You're friends, but not really friends, just in that transitional stage before things get serious between you two.

That's really it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

chili kat

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I don't believe you need a conditional formula. I've been through it from all these angles, with the exception of LJBF when I really wanted more. I've only done it once when I was 18 or so and I'll never do that again.

The only thing that matters is that you don't try to make sex happen. That's not hard to do when you can get it elsewhere. So I don't see the big deal about it.

Like KC said, there are quite a few advantages to it, so giving up sex with these few chosen ladies isn't going to kill anyone.
And as far as the "emotional tampon" talk goes, I have not really experienced this in these types of friendships AT ALL. Conversations aren't usually that much different from those I have with regular friends. Soemtimes they can be just as raunchy.

Besides, I'll avoid a chump friend for the same whiney tampon behavior. It's not just a woman/friend thing.
 
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