On being an *******

[flyingpanda505]

Lately I've adopted the persona of being an azzhole because nothing else WAS working for me. It was well suited advice, because now I've noticed a lot more attention from the popular girls and the hotter girls, but at the same time, I'm wondering if its working TOO well, as I'm starting to get into verbal fights with old friends (who I discovered weren't really that good of friends in the first place, I was hardly invited to go hang out with them and they are around middle-ish in the popularity circle). So basically, any arrogant pricks here like myself want to give me advice? But I'm sort of getting annoyed and angrier as a few kids I know I could kick the shyt out of, but might make some of my other friends angry, because we share the same friends, but they're disrespecting me and I'm exchanging verbal abuse with them, but its not satisfying enough. Should I revert back to my old self or should I continue down my path. I'm half tempted to stay on this path because of the attention from the women and now I'm really finding out who my true friends are.

 

[Potbelly]

Stay the course.

 

[DrD77]

it's a bunch of bull**** that being an ******* attracts more women. genuinily nice people like me get screwed over. im not changing the way i am, women will have to see the light.

 

[ready123]

yeah the whole you gotta be a azzhole thing is a total misconception. on the other hand, the thing the dude above me wrote about girls seeing the light... yeah right, like that's gonna happen

anyway, i guarantee it's not you being an azzhole that is making women take notice but the natural masculinity embedded in that behavior. if you're getting into fights and sh!t, tone it down

learn how to be assertive, not aggressive. assertiveness subcommunicates confidence. aggressiveness subcommunicates you're overcompensating for something

 

[Rhoto]

I'll assume you're still in high school. A persona of being an a$$hole? What does that mean? Figure out who you are man, don't fake the funk, cause it'll blow up in your face. There is a fine line between Alpha and *******.

Most guys have friends from childhood, and remain through thick and thin. Are those guy(s) still loyal or getting their panties in a bunch cause of your mac?

People who normally start fights, normally don't end them. Stay away from physical violence because its silly and pointless. When some one starts giving you sh!t, "Don't dignify them with a response." Get back to whatever you're doing, and ignore them. Because in 4 years, no one will care that you kicked the **** out of another kid.

Get "friendly" with as many girls as you possibly can, because come college, your network of parties and good times explodes.

 

[Potbelly]

it's a bunch of bull**** that being an ******* attracts more women. genuinily nice people like me get screwed over. im not changing the way i am, women will have to see the light.

hmm yeah whining will change the word for sure. Let me know how it goes. :crackup:

 

[DrD77]

hmm yeah whining will change the word for sure. Let me know how it goes. :crackup:

i'll probably get more than you.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

i'll probably get more than you.

dr, I respect your decision to remain who you are. The best advice I can give you is to check this out

try the direct approach. It is the only solution for guys like us, we get to be ourselves and stay honest. It does take ballz to do this though.

 

[Potbelly]

i'll probably get more than you.

hmm okay you can mentally masturbate to that thought while I actually change myself and do something about it.

You're not perfect. Accept that. You need to change. Don't want to? It's not because you're satisfied. It's because you're lazy, you're scared, you CAN'T. Change yourself.