"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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On becoming successful and organizing your time and GOALS

AlexLefty

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I have a specific system I created via an excel spreadsheet to organize my time and track my goals. I've been using this for like half a year now - though I've dropped off the past month - and I can honestly say that it is helped me immensely in accomplishing sh1t. It truly helps me improve as a person, and it's gotten to the point where I kind of feel like a piece of **** when I don't keep up with it.

This is very relevant to you - especially for all those who are creating goals and stuff for their journals.

Let me know what you think, or if you have improvement ideas etc.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NorwegianDJ said:
www.chains.cc also.

I know which days youve been masturbating ;)
Heh heh heh. That Chain thing is pretty cool, going to start incorporating it. Too bad I don't have an iphone though
 
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