On becoming a MAN!!

[I_was_born_a_PIMP]

"On becoming a man" - when you become a man you have responsibilities. When you gotta pay the mortgage, car note, child support you don't have time to be playing games with women. Women are either on your ship or they are not. They either like you or they don't. You don't have time to be playing games, because games take away time from you taking care of business and responsibilities. And woman can pick up on this instantly. When you got time to play games with woman, woman subconsciously see this as a weak trait. Women respect men, who don't play games instantly. The problem with a lot of you guys is that u try to get accepted rather than respected. Forget being accepted by woman and learn how to be respected by woman!!

 

[TheSlasher]

Hmmm... This one is very brief but it sounds like it was grounded on something. Would you mind citing experiences on how you were able to say that, "You don't have time to be playing games, because games take away time from you taking care of business and responsibilities. And woman can pick up on this instantly. When you got time to play games with woman, woman subconsciously see this as a weak trait"?

Especially on the part where you said that they can pick up on that instantly.

Thanks.

 

[apprenticedj]

Absolutely! We need to view women as an addition to our already awesome and busy lives. The fact is that women are ADDICTED to attention, they crave it and they want it but it has to be done right. Some might think if they crave attention well then that's what I'll give her. WRONG! Too much attention will show that you don't have much else going on so this is where being busy like PIMP said is huge. You need her to realize that your attention is valuable and she needs to work for it so it's best to hand it out in small morsels. Just my two cents.

 

[Tictac]

1) where am I going?
2) who do I want to come with me?

In this order.

 

[SgtSplacker]

"On becoming a man" - when you become a man you have responsibilities. When you gotta pay the mortgage, car note, child support you don't have time to be playing games with women. Women are either on your ship or they are not. They either like you or they don't. You don't have time to be playing games, because games take away time from you taking care of business and responsibilities. And woman can pick up on this instantly. When you got time to play games with woman, woman subconsciously see this as a weak trait. Women respect men, who don't play games instantly. The problem with a lot of you guys is that u try to get accepted rather than respected. Forget being accepted by woman and learn how to be respected by woman!!

Women look for a real man to lead their life. Their selection process is not based on the same criteria most men have. Women look for something of a sexy father figure type guy or at least a dominant guy. They want a man ranked highly among men, or at least one that demands respect from everyone around them whether he really deserves it or not.

Part of this is to visualize your life and live it according to your vision. At the very least a man should have some control over his destiny. Your life has to be something, it has to exist and be fruitful. So you can't just be sitting around waiting for some HO to pick you man. You pick the HO.. Women are constantly weighing your value whether you realize it or not. If she sees you are wasting time texting her pictures of ponies and pokemon then guess what? You are some dude that is ruled by ponies and pokemon. Next!

You have to make it crystal clear to any woman you know that you are fitting her into YOUR life not the other way around. If she can't make your Friday date, then she needs to wait for next weekend...

With this attitude you may get a little resistance at first, but hold your frame and she will let you lead if she likes you. Because she knows what real men are, and to be with a real man means a woman will need to make some compromise. They like this, trust me.. they love it.

 

[I_was_born_a_PIMP]

Women look for a real man to lead their life. Their selection process is not based on the same criteria most men have. Women look for something of a sexy father figure type guy or at least a dominant guy. They want a man ranked highly among men, or at least one that demands respect from everyone around them whether he really deserves it or not.

Part of this is to visualize your life and live it according to your vision. At the very least a man should have some control over his destiny. Your life has to be something, it has to exist and be fruitful. So you can't just be sitting around waiting for some HO to pick you man. You pick the HO.. Women are constantly weighing your value whether you realize it or not. If she sees you are wasting time texting her pictures of ponies and pokemon then guess what? You are some dude that is ruled by ponies and pokemon. Next!

You have to make it crystal clear to any woman you know that you are fitting her into YOUR life not the other way around. If she can't make your Friday date, then she needs to wait for next weekend...

With this attitude you may get a little resistance at first, but hold your frame and she will let you lead if she likes you. Because she knows what real men are, and to be with a real man means a woman will need to make some compromise. They like this, trust me.. they love it.

100% cosign. You where able to articulate the answer for "TheSlasher". Thank you

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Women look for a real man to lead their life. Their selection process is not based on the same criteria most men have. Women look for something of a sexy father figure type guy or at least a dominant guy. They want a man ranked highly among men, or at least one that demands respect from everyone around them whether he really deserves it or not.

Part of this is to visualize your life and live it according to your vision. At the very least a man should have some control over his destiny. Your life has to be something, it has to exist and be fruitful. So you can't just be sitting around waiting for some HO to pick you man. You pick the HO.. Women are constantly weighing your value whether you realize it or not. If she sees you are wasting time texting her pictures of ponies and pokemon then guess what? You are some dude that is ruled by ponies and pokemon. Next!

You have to make it crystal clear to any woman you know that you are fitting her into YOUR life not the other way around. If she can't make your Friday date, then she needs to wait for next weekend...

With this attitude you may get a little resistance at first, but hold your frame and she will let you lead if she likes you. Because she knows what real men are, and to be with a real man means a woman will need to make some compromise. They like this, trust me.. they love it.

basically, in a nut shell, the long and short of it, is they want a man to be an overall better person than she is