"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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On and off for five years, sticky situation

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I will try to keep it brief me and this girl have been on and off for five years and the longest off was a year I think. Anyway we have broken up in our latest relationship about 3-4 times and I guess for that to be happening it must be dysfunctional.

Lets be honest deep down inside I do like her but I always cheat. I broke up with her two months ago and after we broke up she sent me abusive messages two weeks later I ignored them and than two weeks later again she sent me a message saying I miss you, so that basically ended up with us together for a month and I guess a lot of sex.

Thereafter she pissed me off so I no contacted her for a week again and then went dinner with my mate and two girl she found out god knows how and told her brother to kick me out of our indoor soccer team because we are in the same team. He didn't listen but ye. Then a week after I called her and she hung up on my face so I texted her calling her a slut and I accidently sent it to her brother, there I should of stopepd but I was so fuming I sent her the same message.

Fast forward few days the brother went and verified text messages with her and I guess she ratted me out, which I always expected she wouldn't do.

He called me hurling abuse and go off and me (note this guy is a biitych) so we exchanged words etc and he kept saying stuff like if I said that to my wife I would have my balls cut off and saying that every girl should be treated like a princess, and than saying I only used his sister for sex amongst other things.


I pulled a few lines like I reallly love your sister and he wasnt like mate get it through your head she hates you. Now the family hates me too lol.

Now basically I have been situations like this in the past with her and it always fixes some how.

Thiis about the 10th break up and I hate to say it I kind of like this drama.....

Worth adding last night she called up one of my friends she is friends with too but he is about ten times better friends with me and she explained everything to him lol I don't know why she would do that??

Can a girl get over someone in two weeks after five years, just based on them going to dinner with another girl?

wouldn't her familys negativity maybe work to my advantage.?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ItsAllAboutMe

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Well my parents divorced when I was about 14 and got back together and then divorced again when I was 19 this time she left with another guy.

Though I think this girl loves the drama just as much obviously it seems.
As a man can we not cheat and still love someone?
 
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