"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacAvoy

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Well being here a couple months in this small town is starting to take its toll. I've had old FB's and opportunities to create new ones, however the quality of women just doesn't interest me. Its even at the point where I would rather not get laid.

However I'm a sex machine and a man of habbit. So the problem has become when I'm ready to come home after a night of drinking. I NEVER use to be a guy that was interested in gettin laid when I was drunk, if I was drinking, I was gettin drunk, if I were lookin to get laid, I would go out and get laid.

So now that I'm not closing with any of these women, I'm comin home horny & drunk. Well we all know what that leads to DRUNK DIALING. I called one of my ex's from Halifax, but didn't really talk to her much but now she's calling again. Not my oneitis but another girl from there.

Then I made my biggest mistake, I called my daughter's mother all drunk and went over. Well of course, we did the deed I've been avoiding at all costs since I've been here. This after tryin my best to be supportive to keep her and her man together over the past 2 months.

So now I'm sittin home bored & horny. Another FB called me earlier but I had my daughter so I sluffed her off. But the thing is, she doesn't even interest me. But I feel like I almost should do it so I avoid making other stupid mistakes like drunk dialing ex's again.

Its like a lose lose situation. At least on the weekend, I went to another town with a bunch of friends, I was actually able to pick up these 2 women but the car I was travelling with was jammed full so I had to leave them behind. It sucks being in the boonies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Señor Fingers

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Considering your situation and your signature, have you ever considered traveling? Maybe you are too big of a man for a one-horse town.
 

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I've travelled throughout Canada and the US, I just moved back here to be with my daughter, I plan on staying here for at least a year. I went out of town for one night this past weekend and I went to a different town a couple of weeks ago. But I'm use to living in a city where a tonne of women / activities are at my disposal any night of the week.

I've grew tired of the scene around here, its the same thing all the time.
 
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Gaming in a small town must really suck. How many girls are in your town? I think your better off in a bigger city! As far as bangin your daughters mother.... Well we all make mistakes. Its in the past. Who cares.... Your a man and you make your own rules and if you feel like banging a girl from your past than do it but be smart about it.
 

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Gaming in a small town sucks extremely, especially when you lived here for 8 years in the past. There is only 3000 people here and I've already slept with about 50 women here. So 95% of the women I know are either taken, fat / ugly or I've slept with them. So if I want action, I almost have to go back to the trough for seconds.

The only reason why I didn't want to bang my DM is because its so easy to go back and thats not a road I want to go down. I've been here for maybe 3 months and I'm tired of the scene.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I shrug at this. I mean you choose the place right? Thats how you made your bed. Sleep on it.

Small towns are absolutely a no go zone for DJ's of any sort. Women in small towns are built with strong morals, cause everyone is watching.

Here's an idea sex machine, find yourself a sex machine.
 
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