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[randalll]

how annoyed/pissed off would you be, if the first girl you slept with came up for a nickname for you ('Rookie') and spread it around town, and now thats what some of yours and her friends call you?

would you have said anything to her about this/acted any different around her?

 

[Juan_Man]

Well, she slept with you so what does that make her? No one really cares as long as you got the ass. Two years ago when I was still a virgin, I would have loved for a girl to call me a rookie. :crackup:

 

[oakraiderz2]

This girl owns you.

 

[Interceptor]

Do not let this immature female take over your mind and emotions.

This female has extremely low self esteem, and is using you to try to boost her ego and justify herself.
There doesnt seem to be any compasion, understanding, or maturity in her, so do NOT let this low character female rule your Center.

 

[randalll]

you're right she does have low self esteem, i dont understand why though because she gets a lot of attention from guys when she's out and there's always someone willing to pay for her drinks and cigs.

the thing that annoys me most is that she doesnt think she's done anything wrong, i know i shouldnt let it get to me but this girl told me she really liked me several times and i couldnt help but get attached a bit. when i told her she'd crossed the line with that rookie thing she didnt seem a bit sorry, and said i should take it more lightheartedly.

this was two days ago i told her. anyway she was out again the night after and asked me to buy her and her friend a drink (i owed her friend one from a few nights ago), i told her no (this was cos i wasnt gonna buy one for her as well) and she got all stroppy and later on texted me saying i was stingy. she also texted me a load of insults today.

 

[Interceptor]

Randall
stop wasting your time and energy with this female. You cant change her.
So you have to be the one to walk away and cut all ties with her.

 

[randalll]

i would do but it isnt that simple.. i mean we have the same bunch of friends, and i see her a lot. i know i havent done anything wrong so i aint gonna lose sleep over it. also, so many other people have said she's a user, self centered, and messes people around... its a real shame cos shes kind of a nice girl at the same time.. just very messed up, she's had a traumatic life. however i know she has no excuse for this behaviour

 

[DonJuan11]

i would do but it isnt that simple.. i mean we have the same bunch of friends, and i see her a lot. i know i havent done anything wrong so i aint gonna lose sleep over it. also, so many other people have said she's a user, self centered, and messes people around... its a real shame cos shes kind of a nice girl at the same time.. just very messed up, she's had a traumatic life. however i know she has no excuse for this behaviour

It sounds like you have feelings for this girl my friend, despite the fact that she has talked behind your back, insulted you, and doesn't care about your feelings.

If you have the same bunch of friends, be polite when you are out with her. Do not respond to any insults or put downs that will feed her ego. I would not persue a relationship with this girl for obvious reasons, but it doesn't mean you can't be courteous.

 

[SilverSliver]

You can ignore it, whine about it or get back. I would go with the first option it's the most mature and who cares. If you want to get back tell people who hang around her, she smells so funky down there you thought you were guest starring on dangerous catch, or has pu55y lips that remind you of the highschool curtains
But seriously, ignore it, move on, the worst insult of all is to kick her to the curb, and have sex with other women.

 

[randalll]

i used to have feelings for this girl, and still do a little bit. but they are definately under control now and i have been with another girl since her. my friend said the other night i seemed like i was totally over her.. and i pretty much am.

its a great feeling when you can look at a situation like this and realise that you can do a lot better, and you cant rely on anyone but yourself to make you happy

..i owe a lot to this forum

 

[PrinceKong]

say she has teeth in her vagina :crackup:

 

[slaog]

Tell her to stop it or you'll be forced to come up with a nicename for her.

It's an easy one to deal with anyway.
Anytime she or anybody says Rookie all you have to do is say "Yeah, Rookie compared to her"!! Say it with a smile too to really turn it around on herself.