On A Path

[JustLikeWater]

Ok so this past week this girl adds me on myspace and she is fine. I say something vague on one of her pictures and get her to start talking to me. She tells me I'm adorable, but what should I take from that? I ended up getting her number, but here's the real problem: I'm kind of shy. These past few weeks I've been way more comfortable in social situations, but there is still quite a bit of work. I struggle having a conversation with everyone, and its usually short. Like when I talk with people, they usually start the conversation, but the topic keeps changing quickly. So what I'm really asking is probably like how can I improve my conversational skills? This girl is finnnneee and improved conversation skills would be great.

 

[jeffthechef]

take nothing from her words

ive had girls say i'm cute, sweet, adorable, make a great husbadn

all that hsit...and i don't think any of those girls ever saw me as more than a good guy friend

what should you do?> get her number..take her out...escalate kino

 

[JustLikeWater]

Well like I said, I got her number, but I wouldn't have a chance to take her out for like 5 weeks.

 

[jeffthechef]

Then, what's the probelm?
just game other girls while you wait for those 5 weeks to pass


as for ocnversational skills...the only way to get better is to talk to more people, that you knwo or don't know..practice talking about a bunch of random subjects...and sometimes getting deep into a subject

just talk more..it's that easy

and there are many threads on conversation already...use the search function

 

[JustLikeWater]

By the 5 weeks I meant hang with anyone, which is the problem. I'm too busy between school, swim, and homework, and in those 5 weeks someone else might get her. After those 5 weeks though, I'll have time again.

Another issue is my school's homecoming is approaching and it would be sick to bring this girl, but I'm thinking it would be awkward to invite her and meet her in person at the same time. Homecoming is within these 5 weeks, so I could take someone else if I really want to go.

 

[jeffthechef]

man, you have oneitis..

you're worried about losing something you don't even have...and why should you ever worry about losing a girl..that's a horrible mindset...especially at this age...you aren't even married..she isn't the mother of your children...

read the dj bible again