on a date, if shes gets a call and talks on it

[KneghtRyder]

would you allow it ... ? other people were looking at me like dude dont let her disrespect u like that... i didn't mind at all actually its a break from convo...should i have said something ?

 

[backbreaker]

there is no rule book on how to act.. it is what it is.

granted, if it were me, and if it weren't her mom or dad or brother or sister, i'd leave her right then and there, throw 20 on the table and tel her to catch a cab home and be done with her

 

[PRMoon]

It depends.
If it's family then it's okay. If it's gonna be a short covo just to tell a friend what's up and she's with a cute guy and can't talk, that's okay too. If she's coordinating a buisness arrangement (meeting in the morning, closing cost percentage, drug deal, gun running etc etc) I'm fine with that as well.

The last girl who pulled out her cell phone at the dinner table and gabbed with her friend about sh*t for 20 mins or so, I excused myself to go to the bathroom and skipped out the back of the house exit. It was a pretty expencive meal too...true story.

 

[backbreaker]

happens to the best of us pr..

I took a girl out to sonny williams... which is the most expensive steak house in Little rock about a year ago.. I had never been there and wanted to go.

so we are there, we order our food and she gets a phone call. I can tell it's her ex.

I went to my waiter, paid for my food in person and hers, and walked outside and went right next door where there was a nightclub/bar..a ctually turned out to be a pretty good night.

she called me at least 20 times that night and about 20 more the next day, then popped up over my house like 4 days later, i wouldn't even answer the door. I'm out on **** like that

 

[~attrACTION~]

happens to the best of us pr..

I took a girl out to sonny williams... which is the most expensive steak house in Little rock about a year ago.. I had never been there and wanted to go.

so we are there, we order our food and she gets a phone call. I can tell it's her ex.

I went to my waiter, paid for my food in person and hers, and walked outside and went right next door where there was a nightclub/bar..a ctually turned out to be a pretty good night.

she called me at least 20 times that night and about 20 more the next day, then popped up over my house like 4 days later, i wouldn't even answer the door. I'm out on **** like that

Hahahaha, man I just laughed out loud reading that. That's pretty sweet how you handled that.

edit: This happened to me once a long time ago. I remember it clearly though. I felt sort of sh!tted on, but it was kind of my own fault. It was some girl who really wanted to do me for a long time, and I kept on ignoring her when she invited me over. Finally she gets with some other guy, and then I realize how hot she actually was. I guess I didn't notice it before or something. So I took her out to coffee, and she seemed into me even then, like I was in the friend-zone but she was still sort of into me maybe. Still, I was really tired and the date was boring as hell. Then she took a call, which I knew the guy who it was. I think her taking the call was a test to see if I would man up and tell her to not answer it or something. I screwed up either way.

 

[PRMoon]

Something was lost in translation here BB. I left without paying for anything, that's why i went out the back of the house. I even high fived a bus boy as i went. Needless to say there was no next day phone call from that particular girl ever again. I know it was pretty underhanded, but really, putting up with 20 mins of "yeah I heard from shannon yesterday, oh, my, god, did you see her new outfit? Her boyfriend is totally gonna freak, heard they're completely PDA these days..." for f*cks sake i'm a PUA I do not waste my valuable time listening to that sh*t. Plus it felt kinda cool strollin through the back of the house here in vegas on an escape mission. Like your in a movie or somethin...bad ass.

 

[backbreaker]

I don't disagree with it aT ALL. However, that was a place I planned on coming back to and I didn't want to be "that little nigglet that stiffed us by walking out" so I paid. Plus it's a touch of class, let the ***** eat, alone...all ressed up...with no one there to talk to because you don't step inside that place without a date

Boy would I love to do that one day however. I snuck out of a pizza in buffet when I was 12 once.

I almost forgot... my old oneitis, had been hounding me for like 2 weeks to take her out somewhere...she went though spirts where she wanted my attention and would "be by my house and just stop by" all the time. So one I think Tuesday night, I'm not doing a damn thing.. i said fvck it. Get dressed, I'm coming to pick you up.

so we go to a steakhouse down the street and we start drinking.. she's telling me thanks for taking her out, how she has been wanting to spend some time out with me, blah blah.. I say.. so is this a date?.. she smiles and says I guess it is. NO quicker than that, the phone rings it's her ex. she picks it up, I walk out. I threw 30 bucks on the table, she can figure out what to do with it.. she can order food, get a cab, her her ex come pick her up.. I'm done. And she knew me better than that to pull a stunt like that on me

So later that night, she gets her best friend (my ex gf also) to pick her up, and they stop by my house.. it was pretty odd considering that we were sitting there talking, while my ex who I dated for about 5 months was there. I'm not one for the drama and I basically told her she would have put this much thought into not answering the phone we wouldn't be having this problem. I told her we were still cool, nothing silly like this was going to end that, but as far as that being a date, it was a f'ed up one and she and my best friend can bet back the gunna go go mobile and go home

 

[killbill]

It depends.
If it's family then it's okay. If it's gonna be a short covo just to tell a friend what's up and she's with a cute guy and can't talk, that's okay too. If she's coordinating a buisness arrangement (meeting in the morning, closing cost percentage, drug deal, gun running etc etc) I'm fine with that as well.

The last girl who pulled out her cell phone at the dinner table and gabbed with her friend about sh*t for 20 mins or so, I excused myself to go to the bathroom and skipped out the back of the house exit. It was a pretty expencive meal too...true story.

I agree man, its really messed up when chicks just start blabbing to there friends while your on a date with them, its messed up. by the way that story is funny lol.:rockon:

 

[Gaucho]

I went on a date with a girl, who got a call during the middle of the date, and talked for like 5 minutes to another guy (of which she was also dating). I thought it was rude as fukc, but it made me want her more (I know the phsycology, but hey, you cant help what you want). This chick has now been my girlfriend for over 2 years, and is happily committed. She has absolutely no male friends left, after I indirectly made her loose all those bottom feeders. She now wants to get married (though Im a long way from that).

So yeh, it feels disrespectful, but dont read too deep into it, might just be her personality, or her playing some fun games with your mind!

 

[djSlvt]

Leaveing, that's like the worst possible thing that could happen to her.


If she excuses herself before the call, then I understand. But if she just picks up and starts yapping, then I'm listening in. Who's that? Not family? Something funny?


It says a lot about girl right there.


I like to pay for myself only, even request two different bills. But, if I gotta leave fast, then I pay.


NOW, if I get a call and it's important, I excuse myself and pick it up. Only I can get important calls.

 

[KneghtRyder]

NOW, if I get a call and it's important, I excuse myself and pick it up. Only I can get important calls.

thats dj alpha mentality in a nutshell..but u realize me and the rest of the forum are semi Afcs hehes

 

[backbreaker]

when I had my company I had a business and a personal phone. The business phone (which only 3 people had access to) NEVER went off. If it rung, I don't care if I was knee deep in some.. I'm stopping to answer it. however my personal phone, if i had company I would cut it off.

If you actually Excuse yourself to answer the phone and don't take over say, 2 mintues.. I might cut you some slack.. that's a touch of class

 

[STR8UP]

when I had my company I had a business and a personal phone. The business phone (which only 3 people had access to) NEVER went off. If it rung, I don't care if I was knee deep in some.. I'm stopping to answer it. however my personal phone, if i had company I would cut it off.

If you actually Excuse yourself to answer the phone and don't take over say, 2 mintues.. I might cut you some slack.. that's a touch of class

I'm the same way. If it's a call from my biz partner I will almost always take it, although I will make it a point to apologize for being rude.

A chick should do the same. I understand if it's important, but if she is making me sit there listening to a one way convo about this week's gossip, that's RUDE and disrespectful. Some chicks might even be into you and not even realize they are being a disrespectful b!tch.

 

[Create Reality]

usually when your date takes a call right in front of you, its because she is talking with me. i would really appreciate it if you guys would leave us two alone during that time. thanks.

 

[backbreaker]

now after we KNOW each other it's not the biggest of deals.. but the first couple of dates... let me put it this way. Until I have had sex with you, you better be on your best behavior.

 

[STR8UP]

now after we KNOW each other it's not the biggest of deals.. but the first couple of dates... let me put it this way. Until I have had sex with you, you better be on your best behavior.

I agree. The first few times you get together (I prefer not to use the term "date" cause I avoid "dates" as much as possible) and you are getting to know someone it's that much more rude. When I get to know her better it's a little different.

Do you make any exceptions for women you are only trying to fukk?

I give equal amounts of respect PERSONALLY, but I'm a little more lenient if I'm not thinking the chick is relationship material.

 

[backbreaker]

not really, because if they are taking phone calls on the date, obviously they aren't that interested in ****ing me. nothing says I want to blow you right now like talking to her GF for 25 minutes about what they are wearing tomorrow

 

[STR8UP]

not really, because if they are taking phone calls on the date, obviously they aren't that interested in ****ing me. nothing says I want to blow you right now like talking to her GF for 25 minutes about what they are wearing tomorrow

Hmmm....well, if I am on a DATE, then yea, I wouldn't tolerate phone calls most of the time. I've just found it easier to forgo the dating thing altogether if I can avoid it.

Usually if she's just a chick that I wanna fukk we are out with a group so it's no big deal. One on one it's a different story. If we are alone at my place, HELL NO....time to go baby!

 

[backbreaker]

I don't go out in groups (assumig we aren't already fvcking)... when I setup a date, there is no guesswork involved. Her in a group is one more factor you have to decipher trying to figure out is she here for "fun" or for "FUN" if you get the drift.

I also think about it in my terms.. if I am really interested in a girl, I don't call her and say "yeah babe.. let's go out.. and let me bring my two best friends with me" If I am interested in someone, I'm going along, I'm making sure I am dressed nice, I'm prompt and I have my plans for the night.

when I'm ON the date, I can tell if she is feelin me and the atmosphere or not. if she's not, we can do whatever it is we are doing, I can drop her off and thank her for a good time without having to spend nights/days/weeks pondering what her intentions are.

Women who are attracted to you.. make it be known they are attracted to you above all else.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I don't go out in groups (assumig we aren't already fvcking)... when I setup a date, there is no guesswork involved. Her in a group is one more factor you have to decipher trying to figure out is she here for "fun" or for "FUN" if you get the drift.

I also think about it in my terms.. if I am really interested in a girl, I don't call her and say "yeah babe.. let's go out.. and let me bring my two best friends with me" If I am interested in someone, I'm going along, I'm making sure I am dressed nice, I'm prompt and I have my plans for the night.

when I'm ON the date, I can tell if she is feelin me and the atmosphere or not. if she's not, we can do whatever it is we are doing, I can drop her off and thank her for a good time without having to spend nights/days/weeks pondering what her intentions are.

Women who are attracted to you.. make it be known they are attracted to you above all else.

Great advise backbreaker..