omg..............now she's more weird........

[Lost In the Seas]

she just called me this morning conferencing her three other friends that we usually hang out with, so it was a four ppl convo, and she asked me if i wanna go ice skating next fri

then her friend said: " _ _ _ _ why are you inviting him when u said u hate him?"

and she said on the phone she wants me to go too so she can push me and make me fall in the rink

then she also said she blocked and deleted me in msn coz she "hates" me so much, and she's not gonna add me again

wtf, what's with her.....

oh and for those that didn't know the previous story, here's the link

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83962

 

[Lost In the Seas]

wtf im gonna call her and tell her no more games, im not putting up to any of that anymore

 

[Lost In the Seas]

what do u guys suggest me do

 

[flexion_]

Sounds like she was just being sarcastic. She called you and invited you skating. Go skating if you like her - don't go skating if you don't.

Women aren't necessarily smart so who knows what they are thinking...

 

[DJHoolahoop]

this bytch sounds nuts.

i'd say don't TELL her you're done with her games... just stop talking to her altogether. Treat her like she has no right to talk to you because that is exactly how it should be anyways.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

i kinda want all these childish games to end right now, i think she's embrassed that she's still not over me although we broke up like four months ago so she's being immature and such

so i should just ignore her?

 

[escobar04]

dude, they're just f'ing with you

no big deal

 

[Lost In the Seas]

what do u mean

 

[Evangenlion]

hahahaahaha :crackup:
man your being played like a joystick.
time to start whipping her ass :trouble:

remember back in the day when a girl bullied u, it meant that she likes u.

man i thought that was a out dated fashion, but we have living proof lol

don't be bullied son.
tell your head master lol
tell your daddy and mommy.

kidding.

stop taking her **** once and for all.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

that's why im gonna call her up tonight and tell her in a very seroius tone that i won't put up any more of her ****, the convo will be probably be like this:

"hi _ _ _ _ what's up."

(whatever her answer may be, ok, fine, etc)

"look, im here to tell u that i don't wanna play any more games."

(she will probably say what games?)

"_ _ _ _, you know that i like you, and i know that u like me, and it's embrassing that we still like eachother although we broke up like four months ago, but we are all old enough now to treat this with maturity. We can either keep playing these childish games to get ourselves nowhere, or we can be like grown ups and see how things will go, we either continue where we left off four months ago or we stay being friends. Do you understand me? Now are you gonna add me back on msn or what."



what do u think, i think it's important to tell her clear that im not stuipd enough to be fooled by her camouflage and there's really no need for games.

 

[Enigmatron]

It sounds like NEXT Time to me

look man dont put up with her games, its not worth the stress and hassle, theirs someone out there that will treat you with respect and love.

its not easy but we all have had to make these decisions!

recently myself included as i was going through the same kind of thing, the girl was great but she had this other side that loved playing games and making me suffer and enjoyed hurting me mentally, its hard to let go especially if you have the love feeling.

"but move on we all must"

 

[Lost In the Seas]

these kind of girls that love playing games and making u jealous and suffer want guys to pursue them like they are diamonds, and tell them how much u love them etc, im not gonna give in to this

 

[Enigmatron]

Yeah i get you

my ex is the same way, i had to do all the chasing and communication and everything

either she loved being pursued or really didnt feel anything for me

we are now just friends ! and she has just met my male friend who she is now claimed her bf! so the games still havnt ended for me

and i said lets go out for a drink the 3 of us! i must be f*ckin insane, but i though it might be a good way to get my jealousy and insecurites dealt with and also i have no feelings for her anymore now anyway, and im gonna check out what other ladies are around when we go out




as for you lost in the seas, youve got a decision to make ?

Do you stay with her and, fight fire with fire and just end up getting hurt more and more?

or do you go and find what you are really looking for in another women who will treat you right?

 

[Lost In the Seas]

i don't know, i may just as well tell her to end the games now and go direct approach her, and see how she responds, if she is stupid enoug to reject that then **** her that's way too lame and immature

 

[Enigmatron]

what kind of ages are we talking here?

 

[Lost In the Seas]

she's 14 and im 16

 

[BackToTheMack]

Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
she's 14 and im 16

Maybe forget about the 14 year olds. Try go for older girls they are more fun anyway.

 

[Enigmatron]

yeah you both are very young, i can understand the imaturity part now

good luck anyway, its probably best to learn earlier now, than learn it all later in life like i have done!

cya

 

[Lost In the Seas]

the problem is how do i deal with her immaturity of being embrassed, maybe i should ignore her overal, put up with her tease and games and play along with her, or calling her up tonight and telling her no more games

 

[Enigmatron]

its up to you, you got to make a stand

tell her she is imature and to grow up and tell her you are sick of her games and wont put up with them anymore.

or if you are happy to play the games and the imaturity then carry on and see what happens.

thats as much really as i can advise, and im not one for that really as ive troubles of my own going on !