"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Omg im lightweight scared!!

SoSuaveDude

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okay, so this girl who's really interested in me got me a tie for christmas, and i lost it that same day, and it hasn't been found since. I'm normally a very tidy guy but dam what a unfortunate event. Now i know she'll eventually find out either way because next time i take her out, she would be really fond if i sport it. So the question is, should i tell her now, or let it drag out and hope she eventually forgets about it. This women is somewhat worth my time, and i would hate for our fling to end because of this smh!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic

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I would just be honest. I've seen too many movies where a stupid lie turns into a huge ordeal. Its not like you did something wrong. Shyt gets lost. It happens. Tell her about it apologetically.

If not, just wear something that the tie wouldn't go with.
 

handle

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Uhh, dude, you do what you'd do with any other tie in this situation. You say you couldn't find it. No big deal. I guess if you really need an excuse you could wear an outfit that wouldn't go with that tie anyway.
 
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