"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Omg im lightweight scared!!

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SoSuaveDude

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okay, so this girl who's really interested in me got me a tie for christmas, and i lost it that same day, and it hasn't been found since. I'm normally a very tidy guy but dam what a unfortunate event. Now i know she'll eventually find out either way because next time i take her out, she would be really fond if i sport it. So the question is, should i tell her now, or let it drag out and hope she eventually forgets about it. This women is somewhat worth my time, and i would hate for our fling to end because of this smh!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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horaholic

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I would just be honest. I've seen too many movies where a stupid lie turns into a huge ordeal. Its not like you did something wrong. Shyt gets lost. It happens. Tell her about it apologetically.

If not, just wear something that the tie wouldn't go with.
 
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handle

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Uhh, dude, you do what you'd do with any other tie in this situation. You say you couldn't find it. No big deal. I guess if you really need an excuse you could wear an outfit that wouldn't go with that tie anyway.
 
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