OMG I met a HB8 and just chatted with her... this is scary

[My Name is Nobody]

Ouch. I was proud of 'ya until this point. Dude, why is it any of her business who you are doing (or not doing)? From here on there should be no cross-talk about current prospects. Agreeing to play this game with a woman is agreeing to play a game that you will never win. It's better for her to let her own imagination bug her, women can easily do that without a guy's help.

Yep it was bad she caught me off guard! Should have said "nunya" oh well.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Yep it was bad she caught me off guard! Should have said "nunya" oh well.

Next time you're in a situation like that just give her a dead stare for a couple of seconds, raise an eyebrow and don't say a word. A woman whose worth anything will know that she's stepped into forbidden grounds. Those who don't get a quick strike against them. Qualify dude, qualify!

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Next time you're in a situation like that just give her a dead stare for a couple of seconds, raise an eyebrow and don't say a word. A woman whose worth anything will know that she's stepped into forbidden grounds. Those who don't get a quick strike against them. Qualify dude, qualify!

So other than that it wasn't too bad.. now I gotta call her up she wanted to go out Friday, she asked me after I went for the #. I think when she saw me with that other girl her interested skyrocketed...

The other one will probably want to hang out Friday.. .. how the hell am I going to juggle this?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So other than that it wasn't too bad.. now I gotta call her up she wanted to go out Friday, she asked me after I went for the #. I think when she saw me with that other girl her interested skyrocketed...

The other one will probably want to hang out Friday.. .. how the hell am I going to juggle this?

I was impressed with how you handled things until that point. You had her too and that's why she asked that question; your answer brought you back down to a level where she felt comfortable (equal if not superior). You were displaying higher value and then marked yourself down, just make sure that you don't devalue yourself by sticking a red "clearance" tag on your head.

Call her up and make a plan for another day. To make sure that she doesn't know that you have a better deal in the works tell her that you didn't want to wait until the weekend and that you want to see her sooner. That'll stroke her ego and a sense of safety. I know you don't have evenings free but figure out a way to see her during her lunch break during the day or before you head to work. You want to spin plates? Start spinning.

 

[iqqi]

Yep it was bad she caught me off guard! Should have said "nunya" oh well.

You should have said "I'm not that kind of guy!" And winked. Stay playful, stay witty.

I don't think what you said was bad at all, though. Just maybe uncomfortable.

As far as knowing how to juggle... you are dating. When you are dating, you tend to date around. If she is insecure about this, that is her problem. Tell her that until you get to know someone, you do not commit to exclusivity... and that she should not either.

Sometimes you gotsta school these cats.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You should have said "I'm not that kind of guy!" And winked. Stay playful, stay witty.

I don't think what you said was bad at all, though. Just maybe uncomfortable.

As far as knowing how to juggle... you are dating. When you are dating, you tend to date around. If she is insecure about this, that is her problem. Tell her that until you get to know someone, you do not commit to exclusivity... and that she should not either.

Sometimes you gotsta school these cats.

Forgot to mention that I seriously think she could be a virgin her fam is super religious. Where's LMS when I need him??

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Bad news

The HB dentist is now saying she is would "like to" go out Friday but is making a lame excuse.. After She is the one who initially asked me out for Friday at the store but was questioning that other girl and I said she was "just a friend" even though we were kissing at the bar.

Plus, after hanging out all night Sunday the HB 20 year old won't return my calls or answer my text message. First time she ever has ignored me like this I get the impression she is upset at me I have no idea why.

I hope they don't know each other they are the same age. I have a bad feeling in my gut about this.

 

[Andromax]

Dude, it's a joke.

http://www.somethingawful.com/d/icq-pranks/dream-girl-blackjack.php

Dude that article is hilarious.. you ever read 'cliff yablonski hates you?'

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Dude that article is hilarious.. you ever read 'cliff yablonski hates you?'

But it's not funny anymore because this girl was telling the truth... she showed me her arm she was a "cutter". I don't know why told me all this stuff up front like that. I haven't called her since the date but we are still chatting.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Damn, check out this crazy girl when I try and joke around with her..

" I am not trying to be a *****, but life is not a big joke, people actually have important stuff going on and joking ALL the time is a bit offensive when someone has **** going on"

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I haven't called this girl at all for 2 weeks and she hasn't called me until this morning, she starts texting me. Then she has called me twice so far this morning. She keeps telling me more and more drama about her life. I just nod my head like"whatever". I think she was wanting me to ask her out but I didn't ask her to get together. I just talked to her for about 15 minutes and got off the phone.

Should I go for it? I'm thinking about a hit and run. She is hot but so much baggage it's insane! And she told me all this up front... it's weird as hell.