"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OMG!!!I freaked out when I saw a hb 10!

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OK so I had left my house like 2 hours ago,and decided to go to the gas station to buy some food.And I saw an extremely hot girl she was more then 10 atleast 100 and when I looked at her,she looked back and then I quickly looked away and got freaked out.I wan'ted to approach her but I got soooooooo nervous,yes it was nervwracking!My other thing is I have myspace,which I deleted because nobody wanted to be my friend I had only 5 people on my friends list,3 guys and 2 girls.So since im about to open another myspace I was wondering if any of you will let be add you as friends!Plus what are some good highschools,because next fall when school begins I'm applying for a new highschool,im gonna move to a new school were I won't get bullied or called names like nerd,dork,geek,loser,creepyloner,etc.Plus my other question is how is college like?Heard its fun but anyways just wanted to post to tell you guys I did leave my computer for atleasr 4 or 5 hours and went outside.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so you're making posts, saying that you think everyone else on this forum is a virgin, yet you are like 14 years old.

Is it just me or does that not make sense ? Sh#t, you're not even out of puberty yet.

ps: if you're a nerd, dork, geek, loner, or loser no matter what high school you go to, you will be made fun of. Its how you carry yourself that will make it stop.
 

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T Money said:
OK dude, you need to read the DJ bible.
Umm no duh I read the bible I just got intimitated and scared (kinda of) and need a way not to let it happen again.
 

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Wiesman44 said:
so you're making posts, saying that you think everyone else on this forum is a virgin, yet you are like 14 years old.

Is it just me or does that not make sense ? Sh#t, you're not even out of puberty yet.

ps: if you're a nerd, dork, geek, loner, or loser no matter what high school you go to, you will be made fun of. Its how you carry yourself that will make it stop.
14 yrs old!Huh dude I'm 17 soon to be 18,well maybe I thought by going to a new highschool people will be nicer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dreamxhenry said:
My other thing is I have myspace,which I deleted because nobody wanted to be my friend I had only 5 people on my friends list,3 guys and 2 girls.So since im about to open another myspace I was wondering if any of you will let be add you as friends!Plus what are some good highschools,because next fall when school begins I'm applying for a new highschool,im gonna move to a new school were I won't get bullied or called names like nerd,dork,geek,loser,creepyloner,etc.
THAT's why you need to read the Bible, not because of the HB10 you missed out on.
 

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Luke!! said:
Say it aint so. Your back. Didnt you get banned or somthing. If you cant even hold eye contact you need help. You have no self confidence. This is why you get made fun of. When someone makes fun of me i go crazy on there asses. No I think its about time you hit that old dusty trail again and get off this site.
Yeah I got banned because they got tired of me being on this site,but I made ALOT of improvement while not coming on this site,it looks like this girl just pretty much had me scared or nervous.Its true I don't have much confidence but people make fun of me for several reasons.
 

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Luke!! said:
People wont be nicer. Your the sam old person. You are still that geek. You still wear clothes out of style. You will still be laughed at.
man highschool sucks,I just hope college is gonna be better.
 

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Some self confidence. Ha you say your a loser, geek, etc. If you have a speck of confidence it will be washed away by a single comment. The help you need cant be fufilled at sosuave. It has to be fuffiled in your mind and with the people at your school. You keep coming here flapping you mouth off and everyone got tired of giving you advice becuase you wouldnt take it. Its to late for you on this webstie. I think you have to fix your problems yourself.
Its IMPOSSIBLE for a man to solve problems,remeber the quote"A nation of a million is stronger then a nation of one."So therefore I mean I can't fix it myself,I need other people to help me.But I have alot of improvement trust me man I actually approached couple girls at malls.And well actually a single comment cannot take away my confidence,and I been changing alot.Trust me man if you see me now im like a different person because I'm actually not staying on the computer like I used to be.
 

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If you want people to not be pissed off.

You need to start applying yourself. Make a goal. Make it a goal by approaching a couple of girls this week. Then next week add two more. So what exactly have you done?

For example, holding eye contact with somebody.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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crossboss said:
You need to start applying yourself. Make a goal. Make it a goal by approaching a couple of girls this week. Then next week add two more. So what exactly have you done?

For example, holding eye contact with somebody.
ALOT couple weeks ago I approach a hot girl at the bus stop infront of PEOPLE1
 

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So how many exactly.

I need numbers. Like for example I approached 10 girls this last May. 3 girls this week. I held eye contact for 6 seconds or more with 3 girls this week.
 

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Well I approach 3 girls in the last 5 weeks,it may seem little but to me thats alot.But about 3 months ago I went to my first party were I noticed being high and drunk gave SUPER confidence,sooooo much confidence that I was literay just grapping girls physically.So thats a good step along time I wouldn';t even wanna smoke
 

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Okay.

Lets see about getting that number up to 2 or 3 this week. If you don't have a job, you should have time. Try coffee places, or sit down places.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dreamxhenry said:
Umm no duh I read the bible I just got intimitated and scared (kinda of) and need a way not to let it happen again.
Are you certain you read the DJV Holy Bible? And not the KJV?
 

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Are you certain you read the DJV Holy Bible? And not the KJV?
I READ BOTH!And im not gonna site here and argue with you on what bible I read or not,I read everything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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