"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMG help me pt 2

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hi my friends, i again really appreciate you help me. :)

so this girl never call me who i say should date. she agree date me, but dont call me back.

*fast forwward*

so i call her. leave voice mail, she TEXT MESSAGE me say she so busy, really sorry, cant hang out. she text message me so late in day that i am not able make other plans. 1 hour before friend called me, wanted to hang out but i thought i had date. she had 2, 3 days to make plan me.

ok so i mad. so i give her cold shoulder yesterday in class. she know she mess up, first thing she say when she sees me is "so are you not speak me now?"

so today, she come in class. sit next to me. she start trying to talk me. i talk back, but obviously mad. i do not need put up with sh1t in my life :(

so after a bit she give up and go do work with friends. another girl come sit with me, we have fun. then michelle (girl i like) come back, ask for help, touch me ask me questions but i still mad.

anyway at end of class she come over. she say "i dont like this pweeny grumpy to michelle thing." and i say "well i dont like when people waste my time." she say i didnt waste your time. i say "yes, you did. i dislike it when people flake on me last minute."

and she say "well i dont like dramatic people, so we have something in common!" and she storm out. she walk a different way to class than normal, so she doesnt have to walk near me.

well now i just want to end this. but she still hasnt apologized, which bother me. she obviously mess up. but it will be unfomcortable in class if we continue mad at each other. i dont forever want to date her now, she not worth it. i dont know what her deal is. how i can end this without lose face?

thank you for your help my friends!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well now i just want to end this.
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Hmmm....well, end it. Who cares if she get's pissed or what not your a guy you shouldn't have to take crap off of female's especially ones that can't make up their mind. Then again....that's all women in general.:D
 
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Just sod her. Be civil, but sod her.
 
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Originally posted by jonny football hero
Just sod her. Be civil, but sod her.
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What the hell does sod mean??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Pweeny Lord Hammykin
so this girl never call me who i say should date. she agree date me, but dont call me back.

*fast forwward*

and she say "well i dont like dramatic people, so we have something in common!" and she storm out. she walk a different way to class than normal, so she doesnt have to walk near me.
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*pats little newbie's head*

I don't know why you keep getting ripped to shreds by females, Pweeny.
 
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pweny,
maybe instead of worring about girls, you should be working out...
 
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Didn't The Matrix: Reloaded make a topic for you people to have your piss wars in?

I think it was called "Public Service Announcement" or something.

No, really, if you've got to have your little turf wars, there's no need to derail topics with it. Do it somewhere where it won't matter.

Seriously, I'm sick of all of you. Who cares if Gio is nice to newbies or not? Who cares if 25 year olds post in the high school forum. Who really gives a ****?

Now, on to Pweeny's question.

Pweeny, I have essentially no experience, but it seems obvious to me that the girl ain't worth your time. She ****ed up, and she won't admit it. It's her fault that your relationship is ****s, and you've got it put the blame where it belongs.

Put the blame on her and give her the cold shoulder. Don't seem angry. If she talks to you, talk back, and be formerly polite about it, but be ice cold. Act like there's nothing you'd like less than talking to her.

If she comes back after this, you could give her another chance, although I wouldn't recommend it. If she doesn't, it's really no loss. After all, it doesn't seem like you're all that devoted to this girl.
 
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i remember me telling you to correct your english in OMG HELP ME pt 1.
but once again i will indeed help you but next time correct your english if you make a OMG HELP ME PT. 3

youre obviously not a high status male. search that up. NOW. and get grammar help...
 
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Alright I cleared all the crap outa this, and its in AE. Don't f*ck this up again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MAN UP AND TELL HER YOURE NOT InTERESTED.
 
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