"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
omg help me my liife is ****ed!
- Thread starter naes420
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
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Good Luck... Attention Wh0re.
Good Luck... Attention Wh0re.
naes420
Don Juan
hey **** you i just dont understand hy it takes so long for a resposnes....im srry this is rely my first forum sitePlay the Game said::crackup:
Good Luck... Attention Wh0re.
Hey dude, chin up. It aint that bad.
It sounds like you are in a tough sitution. But that doesn't mean you can't make the best of it.
I would guess that you are rather young. Keep in mind that your best years only begin afterm you leave school and your parents.
Its hard, but right now you should use the fact that you are stuck at home to set up the foundations of a great life.
Sooner than you realise you will be able to control your own life. Work on yourself now. Focus on gaining skills and the knowledge so that when you are ready to leave home you can step straight into the life you want.
Or
Tell you parents to get ****ed.
JJ
It sounds like you are in a tough sitution. But that doesn't mean you can't make the best of it.
I would guess that you are rather young. Keep in mind that your best years only begin afterm you leave school and your parents.
Its hard, but right now you should use the fact that you are stuck at home to set up the foundations of a great life.
Sooner than you realise you will be able to control your own life. Work on yourself now. Focus on gaining skills and the knowledge so that when you are ready to leave home you can step straight into the life you want.
Or
Tell you parents to get ****ed.
JJ
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
naes420
Don Juan
im 17 and thats way too old to have parents liek this and i dont have to read the bible i have n trouble with girls just the parents
No, 21 or 22 is way too old to have parents like this. You're still just a kid.naes420 said:im 17 and thats way too old to have parents liek this and i dont have to read the bible i have n trouble with girls just the parents